ok, i have this best friend, i mean i love her, its like every day we have more and more in common, and i love spanding time wit her, but, whenever we are in school or anythin, she's like a totally different person, somtimes i understand y she is doing that, and just play along, but when i really dont under stand it and try 2 talk 2 her bout it, she just say "what the hell r u talkin bout?" i get really confused when she does that!! 4 example, we r both in da 5th grade decidin what jr 2 go 2, when we r 2gether, she keeps tellin me she wants to go 2 this school near out houses, then in school she is braggin bout she wants 2 go 2 dis totally different school. i really dont get why she would try 2 do dat!!! please explain to me on why a popular 5th grade girl would wanna change everythin bout herself, i mean there is notn 2 be embarrased bout in her life!!i judt dont get it!!!
2006-11-12 13:27:45 · 5 answers · asked by Avada Kedavra! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she's trying to be somebody she's not is that what u are trying to say?
don't just stand there, do something,
well congratulations, she is really ur bestfriend bcause she is true to u, she is herself with u, but the problem now is that when everyone else is there she is changin, she does not seem to have any personality disorder. however she is concerned about image. her image to the mass, and that is where u should take action. okay, so the pressure is on as 5th graders, i see that but believe me, there's more to that when u get to a higher level.
u see, she is concerned in her image. like first impressions are gonna last. since u 2 r still young and still has more roads to take, she is experimenting with herself and her image. suppose she wants to wear comfortable jerseys but then she thinks like, what if these people see me in that, what will they say. so she then now is dressing to impress eventhough she is not comfortable with it. it's the same thing as that, when ur young u tend to be experimental until u reach the age where you would think, what the heck why am i being like this.
so what u can do is talk to her. communicate with ur best friend. tell her that she should not mind what others say as long as she knows she is right. she should not be to conscious about herself but again telling that to a 13-year old is hard, but hey, u can have ur own ways. just support her, and help her see and understand what u mean to say.
2006-11-12 13:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please work on your grammar. I'm not saying that to be mean. Your poor grammar makes this post difficult to read.
Your friend is trying to impress other people and be what she thinks other people want her to be. Likely she is unhappy within herself and insecure. Secure happy people do not behave like this. You need to talk to her outside of school and tell her what you feel and think about this situation. If she persists in acting like two different people you really need to move onto other friends no matter how hard that may be. This girl will do nothing but bring you down in the long run. Good luck and I will pray for you.
2006-11-12 13:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by The OTHER Boelyn Chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she is testing out personalities. It's kind of rude to be nice to your best friend then a totally different person in school. She probably wants attention.
2006-11-12 13:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Autumn0117 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
color blindness aside, this "theory" is obvious bull. all of us understand how the interest sees color and how the concepts translates it. we do not all see diverse hues for an same merchandise, yet are experienced to label that color a particular way. technology, human beings. study some damned technology!
2016-11-23 18:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by hodapp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's confused or just trying to impress other people.
2006-11-12 13:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋