this person is not the one you are meant to be with?
how did u deal with it...
and if not yet
how would u deal with it if ever....
2006-11-12 13:22:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
thanx for the 2 thumbs up
2006-11-13 18:23:06 · update #1
ouch! I really do not know how to answer this question because I am still in the process of mending a broken heart and still, I am looking forward to reconciliation.. anyway, when I make a promise, I give my heart.. when I make a vow, I give my soul.. I do believe that being in love with someone, you tend to promise everything and hoping for the relationship to last forever if there's such thing but a part of it is the pain. Future is not in our control. There are things that have to end someday the same way like the love always does..but that doesn't mean the end of everything.. it's not how you forgive yourself or ur partner but on how you understand the situation.. it's not how you forget but how to hold on and move on...
Instead of regreting those things, maybe I should look back to the times that I cried so hard of so much pain and tell to myself that those things made me stronger..And I'll be thankful for that pain and experiences because in some ways, it helped me. afterall, love is all that matters. Whether the lovers failed or not, it doesn't matter anymore.. Whatever I do in my heart, I want it to be right. I want to say I did it because it had to be done. I maybe prove wrong but it doesn't matter.. at least to my ownself, I must be true...
2006-11-13 17:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by ok 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have and it's really easy to deal with it. We've all been wrong. You just tell the person that it's not working. You'll both find someone else that'll be the one you're meant to be with. It might hurt at first, but after a while it won't be so bad.
2006-11-12 21:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by kate s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would not Promise myself to someone that I did not feel that I would want to be with. The next time I say" tell death do us Part", That's what I we mean. I take them words very serious.
2006-11-14 02:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by nothere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, we split. I was broke and lost my home from sheer stupidity of being with them. So I had to deal with it, and couldn't avoid it. You pick up, cry a few tears and look foward to something brighter, in or not in a relationship. You grow up and know what not to do next time and know what really matters in a relationship.
2006-11-12 23:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by JustJane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have in a bg/gf kinda relationship
he got over me and ive gotten over him but i still feel really bad about making a promise i didnt keep
however, those you make promises in church and break them..i have no words for it..thats just said..and i wud never get a divorce..
2006-11-12 21:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Pyar Ki Pari♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
I am normally the person being told hey are not the right one or I am quick to tell some one if they think I am the right one and I am not, or rather they are not. I do not take my commitments lightly.
2006-11-13 01:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes when I was younger and dated. Just told them how I felt
2006-11-12 21:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋