My boyfriend only calls me when hes "not bussy" and it really gets me mad because i feel or know hes lying and before he would always call me at a specific time when we first started going out and he always goes w/ his brother to his friends house and they have sisters I think that he may be w/ one of them or messing around with them!! but n-e-ways I'm gonna break up with him but he always seems to cry when i do break up with him or I don't know if hes just faking it and plus he never has anytime for me cuz hes always over there!!! What should I do????
2006-11-12 13:14:39 · 7 answers · asked by lil.sanz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Listen to your gut - break up with him! Guys can turn on the tears just like us girls can. Remember this - actions speak louder than words. He can say stuff till the cows come home - but what is he doing? Not spending his time with you, is what it sounds like. Dump him and make room for someone new.
2006-11-12 13:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by mustihearthis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him-i was the female version of him with a couple of aunts i had at least 2 male friends at each ones house. i never was any body's gf-my mom said i was too young and i went with that. from 13-17 i was living the life and having fun. he is doing the same thing but not being honest. go find a hobby and meet new people so that you don't have time to have the blues after you DUMP HIM with a quickness and find a new guy for you!
2006-11-12 21:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by msijg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered talking to him and working things out. A lot of people don't look beyond their fun and they don't realize how much it hurts the other person. If you lay it out for him and state what exactly you want from him, he might be better able to understand things better and go from there.
If after talking with him and he continues doing his thing find someone else. Sometimes fun is more important than being in a relationship.
2006-11-12 21:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you wait around for him. It sounds like he'll come to you when there's no one else!! Next time he rings and wants to come around because he's ' not busy 'then tell him that you've got other things to do and arrange a time that suits you. If you are not available when it suits him he might stop and wonder why. You are worth more than some of his time. Get rid of him and find someone that likes to spend most of their free time with you.
2006-11-12 21:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by Moira S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id dumb his *** and get someone who DOES have time for ME, and isnt hiding things from me such as only calling at certain times.... r u able to call him? probably not.... thats one of the classic signs that something is up.... for your sake and feelings, I would find another man who I CAN CALL and HAS TIME for me :D
2006-11-12 21:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by Reba_fncy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk Away!
2006-11-12 21:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him why he doesnt make time for you and why he can't invite you to hang out with his friends----otherwise I would kick him to the curb you don't need a bf who doesnt want to be with you.
2006-11-12 21:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋