I and my girlfriend love each other a lot but recently there are so many guys keep chasing my lady and this worrys me a lot, since i can see that some of those guys are richer and more handsome than me. My lady also keep telling me not to worry? and a few days before I used a kind of not-so rude words when i refered to those guys since i heard her talking on the phone with him. so should i have to worry?
2006-11-12 13:11:55 · 7 answers · asked by whichet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, a majority of you share the same idea as mine :) To LOVE MEAN TO TRUST is true then :)
Thanks for your guys's questions i have nothin to worry since I can see that I and my lady, we both are always open :) thanks again :) I know what I should do :)
2006-11-12 13:25:35 · update #1
You can't have true love without trust. My boyfriend worries about me sometimes, since I am in college and I only hang out with guys(I hate girls). He has nothing to worry about, because I don't cheat and I think loyalty is the biggest thing in a relationship. Has she ever cheated before? My motto is once a cheater always a cheater, because if you lack a heart to cheat once then what is stopping them from doing it again.Is she talking to these guys about homework and school or work? If so then you definitely don't have to worry.
2006-11-12 13:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to be in a long term, meaningful relationship with this woman, you need to learn to trust in your love. I know this is easier said than done, but if you are constantly getting jealous and throwing a fit everytime she talks to another guy, you will drive her crazy and she'll leave. Just relax and trust her. Sometimes we end up getting hurt but other times, we find our true love! Isn't it worth it?!
2006-11-12 21:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are in a difficult place where most guys find then self ... if u get too jealous she will get mat at u and if u do nothing u may louse her .. so first of all tell her how u fell but drop down her job and take your time to take her out .. that said if she wanna leave she will leave
2006-11-12 21:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by legna20v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, not if she isnt hiding it. when she starts hiding things then she is either worried that you won't trust her or she is cheating on you. Obviously she wants you to trust her or she wouldn't be so open about this. so you should cut her some slack. SHe trusts that you will trust her, its a beautiful thing, don't screw it up.
2006-11-12 21:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by angie_adie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, to love means to trust her too:) but if you're uncomfortable with this, she should be informed (have a serious talk so she understands you're not happy about this). if she loves you she will minimize contact with these guy friends, though you have to draw a line when you're over-jealous and over-protective. :)
2006-11-12 21:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you don't see or hear her doing these things ,
then it's time to worry .
2006-11-12 21:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes allready cheated on you
2006-11-12 21:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by major__mack 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋