is she trying to get back at me?
2006-11-12 13:10:27 · 24 answers · asked by jbrbbt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She's just looking for a way to try to hang on to you. Ask her to take a pregnancy test in your presence, preferably one you purchased.
2006-11-12 13:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by E B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is.
Some girls will do anything to get keep a guy, get him back, or get back at him. Women are devious and vindictive.
Make an appointment at the Family Planning Clinic or Doctor, and go in with her to have a pregnancy test. You will have to be with her so you know you get the real result.
If she is not pregnant, then run. You broke up for a reason.
If she is pregnant, then what are you going to do?
Stay broken up, get back together with her? You don't have to stay with her. I know of at least one girl that got herself pregnant to "trap" the guy into staying with her. Once he found out, he left (he was going to break up with her anyway)
Will you keep the kid or ask her to have an abortion? (within 72 hours of unprotected sex (where you think the girl got knocked up), you can take the morning after pill) Things to think about.
And if she is pregnant, make sure you are the father. Get a paternity test done. I'm not sure if you have to wait until after its born to have it done, but do it. There are heaps of stories of women out there getting pregnant to other guys, and trying to trap a nice guy by telling him he's the father.
2006-11-12 21:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anna K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My cousin recently broke up with his girlfriend, and she said that she was pregnant, (they have been having sex though) and then two days later, when EVERYONE was involved, she had a "miscarriage". but like, nobody believed that she was even pregnant in the first place, except for her mom. She might be trying to get back at you- but if she does have the baby, be prepared to pay for it.
2006-11-12 21:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask to see her take a test it doesn't many anything except she may have just found out it is better to be safe and calm than make an *** out of yourself either way. If she is and you accuse her of not being pregnant she won't ever forget it.
Maybe she just wasn't ready to tell you if u Broke up with her that could be the case a friend of mine was going to give the news to her bf when they went to dinner and he broke up w/ her before she could tell him.
2006-11-12 21:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by BabyBella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel she is trying to use you. I call it emotional blackmail. She sounds pretty needy. Take a BIG step back and cool off for a while. Don't allow her to wrap you around her finger. It is a good idea to keep a distance, until you know the scientific truth from a mutual doctor's report.
2006-11-12 21:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by dns1962 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not believe her until I saw that test strip myself. Tell her you'll buy the kit and she will have to take it if front of you. I think she is trying to trap you. Don't fall for it. If she is pregnant and it is your baby, well daddy has responsibility's to the mother and baby. Whatever you decide God's blessing.
2006-11-12 21:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thought was: Well if you weren't using protection then you deserve to have to pay for it.
There are sooooo many reasons to use protection, when you're having sex outside of marriage.
She may be pregnant, but if she's smart she wouldn't want to get back with you. Leave once, leave twice. Best you leave now then later.
2006-11-12 21:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by Silly Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to take a pregnancy test while you wait outside the door. If she's unwilling, you're free to go. If it comes back positive though, maybe you can try counseling.
2006-11-12 21:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by lee_anne301 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SHe is probably trying to get you back this is an old line. Tell her you want to go with her to Planned Parenthood and see the test results with the dr. or nurse there.
2006-11-12 21:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by samanny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need proof NOW. Go to the store Go to the doctor but get a test. In fact go to the store now buy one go over to her house & take the test. If she is unwilling then chances are she is lying
2006-11-12 21:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by mindy m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋