I love my g/f with all my heart, but she post things here she should keep to herself?

Question

I was looking in my e-mail and she wanted to see, I didn't want her too because I never clean it out and she foung some old stuff where I had been looking at guys sex sites, I told her it was just curiosity and that I wasn't gay but it bothered her real bad and she has trust issues now, I wouldn't have showed her my e-mail but she had a fit, and know she has posted question on her asking opinons about whether I'm gay or not with her picture, what do you think

Answer 1

Did you ever hear the saying what your's is her's and what's her's is your's. She's your best friend for life. No secrets. That's how relationships should be. I'm sure she'd do the same for you. Alot of people are curious about different things,Although curiosity killed the cat. Think first!

Answer 2

I'm not implying that you are gay but I think it's normal for her to question it. Most men are so homophobic that they would never look at any male sex sites. The fact that you are ok with this is not a bad thing and it doesn't make you gay either. Talk with her and explain this to her. If she loves you, she'll understand but you have to understand that it would be normal for her to think this.

Answer 3

If she trusted your answer,she would understand.People are naturally curious.Although I have not known of a man looking at gay sites if they weren't gay or bi.But it doesn't mean anything other then I dunno anyone who has...Sounds like you two need to talk about it alot more.If it was just a curiousity, and you explain it well,and from the heart,she will trust you.Just tell the truth whatever you do.
Communication is a big key to a good relationship. Talk it out!

Answer 4

Dosen't sound like much of a relationship. She doesn't trust you, and your lack of open communication with her gave her the reasons not to.
Evidently there are reasons she'd ask the questions.....
Maybe you should look at your behavior. Personally, I wouldn't expect her to be around very long.

Answer 5

Relax about what's on here. No one knows you so chill. The other issue is one that only time will work out.

One other thing - don't ever p i s s her off to the point she breaks up. There'll be talk about you that you really don't need - if you know what I'm sayin.

Answer 6

such as you i admire sitting by making use of myself in a quiet place remote from loud issues so i will think of. I in many circumstances could merely talk over with Him approximately regardless of. Like problems I even have or the struggles I even have, etc. i assume I tell Him each and every thing. although i be attentive to that i will continually talk over with Him each and every time, now and lower back I merely like time remote from human beings or issues that distracts me and merely be by making use of myself. Sorry if this sounds perplexing. basically i assume i'm asserting that confident i admire going to quiet places so i will certainly think of and be myself and merely talk (out loud) to Him approximately issues. every physique desires their on my own time.

Answer 7

Wimminz iz fickle.

Some younger women are very insecure. They like to know everything you do, everything you look at everything you THINK.

What the.....?

If you were looking at gay sites what the......?

She has reason to suspect you are a fay guy.

You want to be trusted, do trustworthy things.

You are going to have a hard time getting over this.......

good luck..........

Answer 8

Has she read your mail and scoured your pockets yet? Clean up your computer and messages everyday and she won't be able to find anything.

Answer 9

Hit delete.... and maybe loose those old messages while your at it!

Answer 10

i think you should dump her.. she should trust you.. and she shouldnt look through your ****