I have a friend who is hooked on this 35 yr old (she is 20) married man with 3 children (his oldest is 3 yrs younger then her) He is suicidal and has left her for his wife 3 times but always comes back. AND SHE TAKES HIM BACK!!! He has discourage her from going to college and treats her like a booty call! But she claims to be love and dispite all the attempt from her friends and family she just wont drop this dirt bag! I need some advice to make her listen!
2006-11-12 12:31:28 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This guy sounds like a total ***. i don't care if you have to strap her down to a chair and show her a video tape of her life but you need to make her realize that no women deserves to be treated like that, no women. Talk to her. make her listen if she denies, explain to her that her friends and family only want something better for her rather better than what she has now. good luck and don't ever stop trying for her.
2006-11-12 12:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the guys house with the wife there and wait for the two to start kissing or whatever...and have ur friend with u watching...but yeah, like the previous person said---some things we have to learn for ourselves...on the otherhand, if she is only 20 then -- this is genious(far from it...), but if u r really this concerned for ur friend, then u can try going out and finding some nice guy friends and bringing them over when she is over to watch a movie or something and let ur friend start talking to these nice, young, handsome men and see how she starts to feel then--;) good luck
xao,
and ps:i think it´s really valent that u care so much for this girl. u must be a really great friend to have:)
good luck:D
2006-11-12 12:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but good luck.
2006-11-12 12:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by husam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well somethings we have to learn on our own.... no matter what
2006-11-12 12:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't .... see if you can get her in counseling......
2006-11-12 12:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by ladyqueenbeeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋