I know someone who masterbates, what shall i do?

Question

I know my friend masturbates and hes only 13, thing is.. i dont know much about it.. is it good for him? or should i tell him what is bad or what he will get in future?

Please help..

Is it good for him to carry on doing it?
or should he stop because of something he may develope?

Answer 1

this is normal, so just enjoy it!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Masturbation is normal and better than okay. It is infact healthy for the male reproductive system. It is also not a sin. Masturbation is not mentioned in the bible in the old or new testament. It is a form of sex that we do with our self and is okay as long as it is private and personal. At age 13 he could be masturbating 2 or 3 times a day. It is okay, there are no bad side affects and it will not interfere with heterosex later in adulthood. You should do it too.

Answer 3

Masterbating is a perfectly healthly nornal activity for young boys to indage in. It is fine for him to do that and you shouldn't tell him its bad. A young person body builds up a lot of hormons and this produces sperm. Thus they will get a lot of erections from the time they are 12 tell about 18 or so. After more then five hard ons in one day some boys have to take care of their stiff *****. I advise you to allow him to continue to jerk off (masturbate) as much as he wants to. However please tell him it should be done in private and not in front of others.

Answer 4

Masturbation is NOT bad for you, it actually has GOOD effects...
Some guys I know started to masturbate at the age of 7 or 8 !

Cheers

Connection between ejaculation frequency and prostate health
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/4961.html

QUESTION:
have been coming across articles on the connection between masturbation, ejaculation, and overall health. I was very surprised about this article from the Cancer Council Victoria in Australia . It was a study that confirmed that ejaculation frequency is important for a healthy prostate. The protective effect was most significant in men in their twenties who ejaculated on average 7 or more times per week. It compared this against same-age men who ejaculated less than 3 times per week. I made a New Year's resolution to pay attention to my body and to *** at least once a day. I feel much better for it and my penis strength and sexual urge has increased immensely. I feel balanced. After a year, I can't imagine going back to my old repressed frequency and probably couldn?t keep from cumming for a whole day if I tried now. Why aren?t people made aware of this need? After getting used to daily +, I often have the urge to do it even more, but hold back. Are there any physical problems with over ejaculating?

ANSWER:
What a fabulous New Year’s resolution to pay attention to your body! Your efforts are worth applauding, as being in tune with yourself and your new masturbation schedule seems to have paid off, as you note that you feel “balanced” and “much better for it.” Happily, no physical problems are associated with over-ejaculating, so don’t worry about giving in to the natural urge to enjoy and pleasure yourself more often. You clearly have a strong awareness of the positive effects of masturbation on your body, so go ahead and experiment with masturbation frequency – in this way, you can determine what frequency feels best for you and your regular routine.

You also ask why people aren’t made aware of the “need” to masturbate often. Good question – especially in light of the study’s findings that frequent ejaculation helps reduce the risk of prostate cancer. Unfortunately, self-stimulation – as with most sexual acts – is often viewed as shameful, dirty, immoral, and all sorts of other negative adjectives. Wouldn’t it be great if masturbation could be seen as the healthy, enjoyable, and beneficial activity it really is, openly talked about and (gasp!) endorsed? Perhaps one day it will be – with more people like you who are open-minded and bold enough to talk about it in a positive light.

Enjoy – and pass that article along to friends, family, neighbors, co-workers, and anybody and everybody else!

Answer 5

This is perfectly healthy and he can do it as much as he very well desires (As long as it's not in public or in front of someone that does not want it, etc, obciously).

He can do it all day, every day. He's not going to get a disease or anything. It's not bad, and it's actually more good than it is bad.

Answer 6

Mate, I wanna be helpful and nice but not a perv!
Masturbation - or whatever you or anyone else wants to call it - is absolutely natural and normal.
If your mate does it, FINE!
Maybe, 'though that's your decision, you should try it yourself.
Nick

Answer 7

nope its perfectly fine! its healthy, it builds muscles in the genital area. just be careful with what you watch while you masturbate. some of the stuff online is horrible and disturbing! try staying away from the porn but masturbating is fine.

Answer 8

It is OK for a teenager to do it if done PRIVATELY. But for him to do it in front of you or knowing that someone is looking at or anyone else, it's probably not normal.

Answer 9

at 13 every boy should masturbate, it feels so good and does no harm

Answer 10

its fine. 13 is around the time when I and most guys i know started. unless he like, goes crazy, nothing bad will happen.

Answer 11

masterbation is perfectly normal for people to do. it's healthy, and it relieves stress actually! and it keeps your hormones in check.....if ya dont do it every now and then, ya get all moody, or at least i do!