Is it worth it to save my virginity until marriage? im 18. yes or no? why?

Question

i dont know what to think... abstinence seems right! but other people say otherwise.

Answer 1

Yes, you deffinately should save it for marriage! I don't know how religious you are, but I want you to know that I'm not a religious nut. But, God does say that we should save ourselves for marriage. B/c [and this isn't just for religious people] our bodies are meant for ONLY our husband or wife. If you have sex before marriage, then when you get married, you're body isn't completely hers. And, visa versa. I don't know if that made sense to you. Now, I'm a 16 year old girl, and a lot of times I want to do something w/ the opposite sex, but I don't b/c when I get married, I want to be completely his. I don't want to have used myself already... I would feel that I was letting him down. Let me know if that helped okay? Good luck. lol.

Answer 2

If you believe in saving your first time for marriage, and have held out this long, then stick with it. When you finally let go and share yourself with the right person, it could be explosive. I didn't wait until marriage, but could never never enjoy sex outside of a deeply committed relationship. Just too old-fashioned that way perhaps, but by itself sex is is not enough. With a deep enough love and trust, it's unbelievable, and it is hard to believe that either can be possible with someone who will not make a commitment. I can't relate to the "guilt" thing, not when it comes to sex. By itself, sex is just an activity, and has about as much inherent morality or immorality as a monkeywrench. The right or wrong of it is what people bring with them, not in the act itself.

Answer 3

yes it is worth it, yes it is!

don;t listen to those people who can't think of anything other than their libido. think about it, saving urself for ur partner, don't be a stereo type, like giving it all, eventhough u are guy, not doing it with a girl does not make you a wimp or nerd or whatever, u are just being a gentleman. and that is important. aside from it you don't want to risk having std or aids right? and with that if you get married ur partner may have it, to so think about it., doing it now will only give u what, hours of pleasure?, forget it, just wait for marriage, not doing it now is safe, practical and moral. be proud!
if u get a girl pregnant what will u do? if u run away from fatherhood,have u considered the baby? there are a lot of things that you should consider, and I hope u'll listen to me. good luck!

Answer 4

Yes it is worth it really this day in age with so many diseases you could get. Saving yourself for the women you marry is also a great way to show how devoted you are to a serious commitment.
promiscuity doesn't help anyone especially that one night stand that hunts you down and says your a daddy. God Bless and I hope this steers you in the right direction because the wrong one could ruin your entire life if you can't hold out wrap it up.

Answer 5

I used to think no... get the experience then you will know what you like and when you do decide to settle and get married you wont wonder wht if maybe it would be different or is this all there is but recently my mind has changed i mean i now think too much knowledge can be a bad thing and all the exciting new stuff could be saved to share with one person a true love and it will all be new and exciting to be sharing it with them. Promiscuous sex is a little overrated! but overall its your decision. in modern times it is really hard to find a man who will wait. and even harder if you are in a good relationship but have to ignore temptation and abstain. its probably one of the hardest things to do - say no. if you do it there are all the problems like stds and unwanted pregnancy to deal with not to mention the heartbreak of giving yourself to someone only to find thats all they really wanted and not you. DO WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT? its a big decision that so many people give little thought to. its your body and you only get one life so live it in whatever way you think is right. x x x

Answer 6

Nobody can answer this but you . If you wait longer maybe a couple years you may not wait for marriage . Or if you want to have sex before marriage now is not the time for that. He/she may not be the right person to give your virginity to. Take more time to decide .

Answer 7

Absolutely YES! Sex is something very special and should be reserved for the partner of your life!
Many problems of our society have their origin in the wide-spread opinion, that sex means only fun. Sex is much more than that; at least it should be! And, after all, it is too easy for you to get pregnant and thus destroy your entire future!
Wait until it is your turn. You can do it! By waiting you will not loose much, but you can gain a lot!

Answer 8

Yeah, totally worth it. Abstinence is the safest, healthiest choice, and one of the best ways to prepare for a healthy future marriage. People always say "everyone's doing it," but really each year fewer high school students are "doing it" and more are choosing abstinence. I read that two out of three teens who had sex regretted their decision... they wished they had waited. So stick with abstinence, you'll be glad you waited.

Answer 9

Yes, hopefully your future brings you the perfect, loving and appreciative of this woman.
If not you will still beable to enjoy all the sex possible after the one you thought perfect! It is very worth it because you think it is important and what matters is what you feel important!

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Answer 10

Yes it is worth it, because by then you will have found the right person for you and it will make it that more special. Not to mention you will have more experience in life and in the type of person you want to give it to.