what should i do ? weve been together 5 years, finding out hes gay is realy shocking.
2006-11-12 11:35:01 · 23 answers · asked by guesser 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
how come you are allowed to ask questions about this in general relationships but when i try to ask about girls (even in gay) my question gets pulled
thats a bit whack, really
2006-11-12 11:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by tony h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... He's not completely gay.. he's bi... and it's only a problem if you think it is. If I caught my boyfriend in bed with another guy I'd tell him to take it elsewhere cause I'm tired and I'd tell the other guy not to wear him out too much cause I'm gonna need him later on. It all depends on how you view it. Granted finding out is shocking, but if you're cool with him being bi then let him be bi... just know that YOU had him for 5 years.. not the guy. So long as you're the one he comes home with.
2006-11-12 19:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by Monkeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crap..the worst scenarios ever. Let him go, there are plenty of fishes in the sea.
And remember to give that guy a good slap for not asking you permission before he using your object.
2006-11-12 19:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by timbo_boi15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bottom line he is a cheater and on top of it all he is gay leave him. Not something he can sayit was the first time find someone else good luck.
2006-11-12 19:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch well of course ur hurt. ask him if this lifestyle is what he wants also u have to descide if u want to be with a bisexaul partner cos now u know u cant trust him and its men and women he could cheat with. honey wipe those eyes lift that chin and say now pack ur other shi* and get out.
2006-11-12 19:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by mrs nevz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask if he is bi. If not, offer to be his friend. If you can handle that 'demotion'. Might want to take a little time and space to yourself first though, to get over the relationship.
2006-11-12 19:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you see now, why pre-marital sex is a crazy idea in the first place?
You hurt less in the end than the fun you that gets you terribly hurt and shattered.
Forget him, reorganise your life as a beauty!
2006-11-12 19:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by femora 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeks. not sure what to tell you , he's difinitly bi the question id=s are you willing to stick by his side , if he wants you to and do you want to. Maybe you could work things out but probable not. You surely need to talk.
2006-11-12 20:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by will_go32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick them both the hell out of your bed and while your at it go buy an AIDS home test kit
remember he can get AIDS up the butt and pass it on down the pipe
2006-11-12 19:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Get tested. Talk to a counselor.
2006-11-12 19:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋