Try to understand been told you are loved then treat like a nobody after !!!
2006-11-12 11:19:29 · 8 answers · asked by Michael L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it will take you some time to get over this person but you will trust me. they are obviously emotionally imature. on some level they likely do love you, just don't really understand what real love is and throw the word around without understanding the reprecussions of what it may do to the person the say it to. could be a serial commitmentphobe or just an immature person who has no clue what they are doing. be thankful to be out of it before it has been months or years.
2006-11-12 11:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by bella36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't understand this either. Maybe he's too busy loving too many people! I think nowadays in the English-speaking world, the word "love" is used too casually and it doesn't really mean as much as it used to. Don't take it too seriously. Don't you feel that everywhere you go, you hear people say they love so-and-so? Do they really mean they LOVE that person enough to go out of their way to do things for that person? Ninety-nine percent of the time, I think they just mean they enjoy that person's company and no more than that! When I was a young girl, the word "love" carried a lot more weight than it does now. In those days, a person didn't say he/she loved someone unless he/she felt some commitment for him/her. It's not the same in today's world.
2006-11-12 19:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its someone thats in love with the idea of being in love and the rush at the start of that feeling rather than someone who is mature enough to have those feelings. Its them who has the problem not you, although at the moment you will feel like its something you did.
2006-11-13 02:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He/she is just not that into you. When someone loves you, you don't have to guess or ask questions. There is not a good answer for his absense aside from being in the hospital. And that's not likely.
2006-11-12 19:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the person is a player..there are too many of them around nowadays, they say things they DO NOT mean. They slide of the tongue too easily, too soon. Most likey their interest has been drawn to another. Count your blessings to be rid of such a loser. Put it down to experience and be wary of he who loves too quickly!!
2006-11-12 19:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they never loved you at all, alot of men just want to get into a girls knickers and they will sweet talk, welcome to the real world and its not always nice, their are some mean men out their and women but not all.
2006-11-12 19:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Well since you two have only been together for weeks.... it shows it wasn't love to begin with.
It takes more time than that for real love to develop.
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2006-11-12 19:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they just found out what you were really like.
:-)
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2006-11-12 19:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by George D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋