I'm a female who keeps asking out guys who turn out to be gay. Not just one or two, but so far about five. Does that make me a sort of lesbian by proxy? Is there an actual term for this that I could use to describe it to my friends?
Thank you for your help.
2006-11-12 11:17:56 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No, you're not a lesbian by proxy, you just have ended up being attracted to gay men. Just tell your friends that you have gaydar (gay radar, a term to describe being able to guess that someone is gay). Ask some of the gay guys that you have asked out if they have and straight guy friends who are cute.
2006-11-12 11:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude, but I think the term is fag hag. A girl who hangs around gay guys, and generally has a thing for them before she learns there big homo's. My best friend Amanda had that problem (I'm gay by the way, to prove what a hag she is) But she's married now with three kids. And her husbands a big redneck. So my answer is......go for white trash?
2006-11-12 19:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by mathuex08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope ur not some a lesbian by proxy. They are probably ur ideal type of guy, keep trying and u'll find a straight guy that meets ideal qualities.
2006-11-12 19:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, there are some mighty awesome looking guys out there that you would never know they were gay, until you ask. I used to work with a guy that had muscles and the looks of a greek god and he was gay, but was he great looking or what!!!
I used to like to hang out with a friend of mine that was gay(until he died) and I loved to be around his gay friends, because they treated me like I was royalty. They were awesome, and I didn't have to worry about them trying to pick up on me like straight guys did. They would dance with me and buy me drinks and we had a fun time, then I went to my home and they went their way.
They know how to treat a woman like a woman too, because some of them feel that they are.
2006-11-12 19:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, SH1t happens, I've done that before too. Those guys are just cute and hell. You've just got a lot in common with them, that's why your drawn to them. Your not necessarily a lesbian. But if you wanna try that side of the fence, honey, it's fun too.
2006-11-12 19:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wouldn't be a lesbian unless you were actually attracted to women. someone already mentioned the term f@g hag. a bit of a crude term, but some might say that would apply.
2006-11-12 19:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i don't think you're lesbian just because you ask gay guys out by accident all the time. it's just an accident each time you asked them, keep asking and you'll find the right guy for you. hey am a bit like that too. wanna try me??? he he he, just kidding girl.
2006-11-12 20:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by lami_spammers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You by now should have developed great gaydar, I have never personally experienced this as a problem. I can always spot a gay man. God bless
2006-11-12 19:20:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The term would be "One who has bad luck"
2006-11-12 19:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by lifendeathnyou23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋