25/ female/ London /waiting for my first true love/ broke/ not thin enough/ in a big city alone/ tired of meeting pretentious people/ stuck in a rut/ not sure if i've chosen the right career/ sexually frustrated but don't want a casual shag/ wouldn't mind company tonight/ 50 names in my phone book but no-one to call...
2006-11-12 10:49:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
hey i knwo how u feel exactly well i guess we jsut have to wait and make ourselves busy with other things but :
-------------""Girls--------------
-----------are like apples------
-------on trees. The best ones-----
-----are at the top of the tree.-----
---The boys dont want to reach---
--for the good ones because they--
-r afraid of falling and getting hurt.-
-Instead, they get the rotten apples-
from the ground that arent as good,
but easy. So the apples up top think
something wrong with them when in
-reality they're amazing. They just--
---have to wait for the right boy to
---- come along, the one who's-
----------- brave enough to-----
---------------climb all---------
---------------the way--------
--------------to the top--------
-------------of the tree.---------
hope it helps
:)
2006-11-12 10:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by khoshgel 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure but u should speak to a doctor for a professional opinion, it may be that you just need to seek some reassurance that your doin fine, sounds to me that you really lack confidence in yourself and this could be whats making you feel bored and withdrawn from a social life, maybe you should just get all your problems out in the open to someone here because no one knows you so u cant be judged, and u might be surprised at the encouragement and advice you can get from ppl u dont even know.. take care x
2006-11-12 11:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are tests on the web and other places to take to see if you are depressed. Lonely and feeling blue is a normal reaction to life; depression is a medical condition and MUST be treated. If in doubt, do not be ashamed to get a doctor's opinion. It is difficult to mingle in today's society, with its sexual openness and to fit in at work, when the job may suck.
If nothing else, try to move on in work; ie train for something different, where you will have more power over your job/life. It may take awhile and even be a lot of work, but it will allow you to refocus your life and come out on top. Invest in yourself. Fat, thin, who cares (OK, society focuses on thin, but you don't have to.) Get that education, mentally thumb your nose at those who want a casual sexual fling, as you'll be too busy living to worry about what THEY want you to do, and you'll be doing what YOU want to do. Go for it!
2006-11-12 10:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I knew I was depressed because I thought about death way too much and I just never wanted to leave the house, but I would still get up and go to work. I didn't/don't care about much of anything and I am sometimes an emotional wreck...the meds I'm on help with all of that.
2006-11-12 10:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Here's a clue. If you're lonely, and spot a £20 note lying onthe ground outside your window, you'll go and get it. If you're depressed, you probably wouldn't be looking out of the window in the first place.
2006-11-12 10:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by Darren R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, its in basic terms your 2d evening, think of effective, you will make acquaintances quickly, Am in college to, In am the fashion of guy or woman who will merely walk as much as and say hi, and circulate right into a difficulty, merely try doing that.
2016-11-23 18:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression is when your sadness starts to affect your ability to function. When I had my worst case of depression I ended up flunking college that semester because I was so depressed that I stayed in bed instead of attending classes.
2006-11-12 10:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Dysthymia 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
crying
increased anger/temper
not interested in hobbies
eating or sleeping too much
not eating or sleeping
don't care about personal hygiene or appearance
thoughts about death/suicide
are all signs of depression
2006-11-12 10:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can go on with everyday activities, then you are not depressed. Be sure to feed yourself and get enough rest.
2006-11-12 10:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by Julie S 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You just have to get active. London rocks get out and enjoy yourself.
2006-11-12 10:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by messtograves 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋