ok, i know there is no way to tell FOR SURE, but i would like all guy opinions about my sisters boyfriend. they have been together for 3 years. he is 26 years old. he says he is too old for sex. he never touches her, never acts interested. once when they actually had sex, he asked her to stick her finger up the back side. sorry, that's nicest way i know to say it. anyway, also, he's the kind of guy that is always wearing a jacket, never EVER goes without a shirt. till his guy friend came over once and he walked into the room shirtless. and he sat on the love seat with the guy instead of my sis. he's a truck driver, and so is his friend. when they decide to run together, he never calls my sis. when this guy isnt around, he's calling at least twice a day. so what's up? do you think he is gay? or maybe cheating with another girl? what are your opinions?
2006-11-12 10:41:16 · 13 answers · asked by melinda 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't know but if I was your sister it wouldn't matter to me I would just be out of there! Mister truck driver and his bunk buddy would be able to do exactly what they want.........cause I wouldn't care a bit.
What is wrong with your sister that's what I want to know! Why has she put up with this ...that's what I want to know.
She must have a very low self image, perhaps she needs to dump the bum and work on herself and not worrying about not having a man. She hasn't had one for over 3 years right!
This truly is not about the looser man she chooses to be and stay with in spite of anything you might want to say he is or is doing or not doing.
This is about your sister she needs the help to get better and think of herself as worth more, perhaps counseling for her would be a good idea.
2006-11-12 11:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Crampy Grampy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... well, some people have body image issues (which would explain always wearing a shirt) and all guys have a prostate (which would explain him asking about the finger). Sitting next to the friend really isn't a big deal. It is odd that all of the sudden he feels OK about not wearing a shirt. And guys can have guy friends without it being gay.
Having said all that, a 26 year old guy not being interested is sex is not normal. Your sister should ask him if he should see a doctor about having a low sex drive. If he doesn't want to go, the problem isn't his sex drive but where else he is getting it at.
2006-11-12 19:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out for sure whats going on is if you ask him. But have you ever heard of the saying straight men with taste ?? He could be one of those guys dont you think ? As far as his sexual pleasing is in bed well i guess guys like different things {i guess}. And for his friend and him leaving and him not calling her well guys do that ALOT. Than again i could be wrong and your sisters boyfriend could be a bisexual and he has one of those secrets where he is dating his friend and your sister at the same time. Hope this helps
2006-11-12 18:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG if I dressed as Liza, sang "I will Survive" slept with Barney Frank and was Grand Marshall of the Gay Pride Parade I still wouldn't be as gay as this dude!
2006-11-12 18:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by imaginary friend 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing all that then he is probably gay. The only way to find out for sure is to just ask him. If he is he may be uncomfortable about it, which is why he's in a "straight" relationship.
2006-11-12 18:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by JR 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds like the trucker version of Brokeback mountain! LOL. Hes gay.
2006-11-12 18:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Gay. But also a liar. Two completely different topics to look at!
2006-11-13 02:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he possibly is gay. she should be asking him. maybe he's not sure about coming out. or maybe he doesn't have the nerve to break up with her. also, massaging the prostate via the rectum can be pleasurable for men, straight or gay. that just depends on how comfortable you are with yourself.
2006-11-12 18:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take your meddling on the Springer show.....or just mind your own business.
2006-11-12 19:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
trust ur instinct, if it walks like a duck,quacks like a duck.... its a duck
2006-11-12 19:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by shaging 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋