okay so theres this teacher(well not really, but she grades all the english papers in the school) at my school and she has cancer. she is going through chemo and our school is trying to raise $4000 to help her out with hospital bills. well they are having this fundraiser where students can volunteer to shave their heads and I was interested in doing it. right now my hair is about 4 inches past my shoulders. I dont really have any connection to it and I dont really care what I look like. when I told my family I might do it, they were really supportive, BUT my f*ck buddy says we cant have sex anymore if I do it. well I dont want to let down my family/friends, but ultimately it is my choice. what should I do??? I really love the sex, but doing this... especially for a good cause is a big deal. what do you think?
btw, im 14. im moving in a couple months(closer to my school) so I wouldnt be able to have sex with this guy anymore, but it would still be no sex.
2006-11-12 09:58:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ok thanks for the reassurance guys... im gonna do it!
as for him, well im pretty sure he'll still want me even if I have no hair. if not, then I guess I can find someone else.
2006-11-12 10:27:05 · update #1
God damn, you're brave.
DO IT!
It'll be a great experiance, and you're doing it for a wonderful cause.
2006-11-12 14:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
1. You're 14 and shouldn't be having sex. (Not an old fogey telling you this, I'm only 26.)
2. If the guy is so shallow that he wouldn't have anything to do with you with no hair, he's not worth your time in any capacity at any age. Besides, if you're moving away from him soon anyway, what's the difference? I'm sure someone else would be willing to make bad decisions with you whether you had hair or not.
3. And the point, if this is something you want to do, and you feel like supporting the cause (which is a good one and don't let anyone tell you otherwise), then go for it. It just shows that you'll sacrifice vanity for a cause greater than yourself.
2006-11-12 10:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by desiderio 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would definately shave your hair. You would seriously debate whether to help save a life or keep having sex? If your friend isn't into you enough that he would continue to see you after you cut your hair then the relation ship is not worth it. Plus you'll find other partners. Anyway, aren't you a little young for sex?
2006-11-12 10:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by starr_wix_wickens_aka.starreyes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
14 is kind of young to be having sex hun, especially if it's with some one you just consider a fu*ck buddy. I think you should stop doing that anyway, weather or not you decide to shave your head. Since it's for a good cause, I suggest you do it, but ultimately only you can decide.
2006-11-12 10:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by Darko 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
See this is why teenagers shouldn't date. Because all they seem to think about is sex. But shave your head and that is more important than having sex. And quit having it by the way. Your too young.
2006-11-12 10:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by baddrose268 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your 14 you have all the time in the world for sex do whats right and shave your head And hey see if you can donate it to locks of luv its a really cool charity that takes your hair and makes wigs for cancer patients.
2006-11-12 10:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
14! you should really not be sexually active so if you lose your f*uck buddy big deal.
Its your choice on the hair. Its for a good cause and its your hair, you have to live with the choice you made and if you shave then your choice is to be bald.
What do you think!?
2006-11-12 10:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your are 14?? Be careful with yourself or you are going to have alot harder decisions to make.
It is the truth. Why would you put a thumbs down? I was not being mean. I was first stunned, and then trying to help her see, that a haircut is going to be the least of her worries if she continues down this road.
2006-11-12 12:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by adrein_1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do it. You have a very good reason to shave your head, and I guarantee he will still want to have sex with you.
2006-11-12 10:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who cares what this guy says shave your head. trust me i believe in Karma and you would be doing this for a good cause. so god will repay you somehow. anyways you could always wear a wig. and who knows maybe youll look cool being bald.
2006-11-12 09:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-21 23:39:37 · answer #11 · answered by daw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋