2006-11-12 09:52:35 · 39 answers · asked by Jim 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Garage Dude, you're the only one thinking about this logically.
2006-11-12 10:04:58 · update #1
NO Blame yourself......lighten up and think positive!!
2006-11-12 09:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
This is a very peculiar query, oh well here goes. There are some that feel justified in blaming their parents when they were abused by them and were in fact unwanted and became the brunt of their problems between the couple. The parents are responsible for their young and they should not have been using the child as a ping pong ball to justify their behavior. However for the child to make the best of a bad situation it would be wise for he/she to be responsible and stand up and be counted as an individual that was born into this world by a natural act, upon which he/she is someone in his/her own right and what they would do er go an eternity. For no one is going to say "Oh yeah lets blame the parents". That is ridiculous, the parents will be factored in but it is not relevent enough to blame them for the actions of their offspring. Simple as that
2006-11-12 11:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From an objective perspective, it is not fair to blame your parents. This is because they did not know that you would, in the end, resent being born. However, if they somehow had had omniscient knowledge that you would eventually resent your own existence and they chose to foster that, THEN they would be to blame. But, this scenario is highly improbable, so no, it's not fair to blame them, unfortunately...and in this case, you will have to direct the energy toward something else as, then, there is no one to blame (unless you are religious, then it would be your Creator that you would blame).
2006-11-12 11:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well, your parents couldn't really anticipate that you would resent it, so I'm not sure they can be responsible. Some people think its unfair to bring any child into this cruel world, so if you are just bummed in general about the world, maybe your parents hold about 10-15% blame.
On the other hand, if you're bummed you couldn't get a PS3 cause they're sold out, well, that's not really your parent's fault, lots of people couldn't get one.
2006-11-12 10:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Chappaquiddick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're right, they can take the credit for having you, but I don't think they can be blamed for it because of how you feel about their choice. I think this is a personal thing you have to deal with, and I don't think you need to put the blame on anyone. But I definitely think you should seek help to figure out why you're feeling this way about your life, and how you can put it in a more positive light.
2006-11-12 09:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by jennabeanski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A baby is concieved through the union of an egg and a sperm. That's an idiotproof fact. Though countless sperm are active at any one time, the egg may not even become fertilised.
So, your formation is, a mere remote probability that's taken place.
Your parents wanted to concieve a baby, but they didn't necessarily and specifically, wanted you.
If you blame them for concieving you,
who should they be blaming for having concieved you?
2006-11-12 12:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Saffren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mind telling me why you resent life? But I don't think you should blame your parents. They did not know you would resent being born. Maybe you should try harder to live. And I know where you are coming from.
2006-11-12 09:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by Cister 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do resent existing? Because life is inherently unfair. Is it fair to blame your parents? No, but who ever said life was fair. Go ahead and blame all you want.
2006-11-13 08:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by Rico Toasterman JPA 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its really not fair to blame anyone but rather its an unhealthy thought pattern to feel resentment about being alive and feeling resentment towards your parents for having you.
Please seek some counseling I know your not as receptive to this idea as you are being told that its just dandy to feel like you do but hey you asked for opinions and this is mine. Straight up and honest your not thinking in a healthy manner and I suggest some therapy to get you happy.
Alot of us out here have obstacles to over come, I hope that you turn out to be one who over comes them.
2006-11-12 12:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by ~♥ L ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you want to blame your parents, then you really Don't HAVE a life; you're living someone Else's life and not your own. If you feel you have to blame someone then you're never going to attain a sense of Self and Importance. And then all you can do is just moan and cry...
So stop moaning & crying; get off your butt, find a sense of prinde in who you are, not WHAT you are and learn to make a difference. After that, any failure is your own.
You'll never grow up if you have to blame all your woes on mommy, daddy, God or the Boogey-Man.
Good Luck!
Jaime
2006-11-12 10:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by El Santo Gordo 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Absolutely! And you have every right as a human being, to go right up to both of your parents this moment, and insist that between the two of them, they come up with some sort of a genius plan to put you exactly where they found you! And if they refuse? Well, do you like decaffeinated green tea? Hey, you "did"
ask, after all.........(tee-hee)
2006-11-12 10:27:59 · answer #11 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋