He is being bullied at school. I think it is wrong to dye a childs hair just because the child is ginger. What do you think?
2006-11-12 09:38:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yep def should gingers are ugly
2006-11-12 10:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by paul m 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
My daughter has the most wonderful red hair,(I was a red head, but no longer and would never go back) but I'm so glad my son hasn't, his is boring old brown and I'm thankful for that. Red hair seems to be much more common now, but it is so much easier for girls. Kids are the most cruel things, the playground is a battleground, I can understand his ex wife's feelings, I know red haired boys who have done the same. The school needs to deal with the bullies, but unfortunately he will get the taunts all his life, she needs to work on his self confidence.
2006-11-12 11:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lulu T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
claire...i have 2 sons and a grandson with red hair..my sons hate it so they shave it very short so you cannot see the colour...red hair is beautiful...i have red hair....if this child is being bullied then the school must hear about it, but i don't see why she wants to dye his hair...have her cut it short...it does not matter how many time she dyes his hair...it will always show through when it grows, he's always going to have red hair no matter what....and his kids will too...plus lots of dyes now contain strong chemicals, she must be carful what she uses...but i dont agree with dying a childs hair...plus if she dyes it darker or lighter he will get bullied more..they know he has ginger hair so when they see his dyed hair they will bully him more coz a lad had his hair dyed...tell her to leave it as it is...the bullying will stop when someone informs the school...thats whats important...not what colour his hair is
2006-11-12 09:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He will get more bullied if she does that. What a silly cow. does she think he can just turn up at school with different hair one day and the bullying will stop? May I suggest after school Karate lessons or similar for him? All bullies are basically cowards and the very fact he attends such classes will act as a deterent and make them back off, even if he's no good at it the friendship with a bunch of kids who are will have the bullies running scared.
2006-11-12 09:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by angus1745 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
that's so stupid, all she will teach her son is that he has to change the way he looks in order to fit in.
What's so bad about having ginger hair, my boyfriend has it and i love it because it's so unusual. By best mate also has ginger hair and she gets a lot of positive attention because she stands out.
It's a shame he is getting bullied, but dying hair is not the answer. How does your boyfriend feel about it does he have ginger hair too? if so maybe he's the best placed person to talk to him about the benefit's of being unique.
2006-11-12 09:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is sad to think a mother conforms to what other children say, even if it is not kind. God made each and everyone of us different, and that is what makes life so interesting. If we saw ourselves each and every day, how boring would that be? The mother is wrong, just validating something is wrong with the child. She should be encouraging him, especially at a young age, otherwise, he will end up with an inferiority complex and become another loser in life, how sad is that?
2006-11-12 09:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she really shouldnt dye his hair, its apart of who he is, some kids are just mean, but if she dyes it then it could make matters worse for him because then he'll get teased for having a new haircolor, its really up to him to decide what he wants done, but changing his appearance to stop the teasing isnt going to do anything, if he is being bullied at school then he needs to inform the principal or a guidance counselor about what is going on...
2006-11-12 09:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The toxins of hair dye verses the psychological trauma of bullying. I think they should first try and raise their kid to have strong self-esteem so that he is not vunerable to those kinds of torments. However, I have known some red heads and they would probably wish their Mom would have dyed their hair! tough call.
2006-11-12 09:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by Signilda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same undertaking, okay to no longer comparable, yet i think the determination is an identical.My ex has a sparkling lady pal who speaks ill of me. Your bf's 3 12 months previous clamming up is wide-spread and the ex saying the three 12 months previous says you do undesirable issues is wide-spread too! i'm confident the new child feels the anger his mom has in the direction of the the two one in each of you subsequently he's perplexed approximately how he ought to act. sounds like your bf's ex nevertheless has emotions for him. make confident he makes it very sparkling to her that he does not desire to be together with her! interior the recommend time, if it extremely is the guy you desire to be with, you will ought to difficult it out and forget approximately her. in case you work together her it is going to in elementary terms worsen. do no longer confer together with her and enable him manage her. She is somewhat jealous of you!!!
2016-12-14 06:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything to stop the kid from being bullied at school. yea go ahead and dye his hair. Its not wrong sweety
2006-11-12 09:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My niece is ginger..she's 14 and she dyes her hair.....but she still gets bullied, as the kids knew she used to be ginger!
2006-11-12 09:41:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋