So recently i stopped talking to my "best friend" 'cause it turned out she was not a real friend to begin with,we were cool for a little over a year and it really hurt me cause i thought we'd be friends forever.Then there was this girl i've known for a few months and i though she was cool too but everything changed once she started prostituting.She has money all the time and she's not always broke like me anymore.But she makes me feel bad that i am and i don't think that's right cause i'm not going to prostitute myself when i am making ends meet and if she wasn't she would be the same as before like me, always broke.I don't hang with anyone like that cause it just makes me feel bad and i don't think that she's a true friend for doing that.Why do i always attract the wrong sorts of people?What's wrong with me??I have not one close friend that i've known for a long time that has been true to me....
2006-11-12 09:35:54 · 7 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to stop jumping onto the "friend wagon" so quickly. Friends take years to develope. That's why its so much easier making firends as a child. As kids, you play one intense game of handball and you think you've found your BFF. It's different when you get older. It's almost as if you need to analyze who you are freinds with. Take time to see if this person is someone whom you can trust your darkest deepest secrets to. Make sure they listen to your problems not just dish out theirs. In other words, find out a little more about someone before you give them the important title of being your friend.
good luck
2006-11-12 09:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by nina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are not fake, just unuseful. You must depends on yourself to not get disappointed. Forget about best or very good friends for life,
I think it become impossible to get them. Just take people as their are, stop jugging, keep your privet life for yourself, don't look for helping answers - if everything is in your hands. Don't get angry on people because they are who they want to be. Be happy enjoin freedom, even if the cold season is coming and you have to sleep alone. Good luck.
2006-11-12 17:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most people are not sincere and Fake, so you shouldnt depent on people, just be content with yourself!
Trust yourself and not others , esp girls they all stab you in the back either by stealing your boyfriend, husband, or not being there for you...
2006-11-12 17:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by lil_pinkmartian 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
true friends are hard to find because you have to understand that everyone is not like you and you have to except people for what they are and who they are not what you want them too be thats what a true friend is , think about it
2006-11-12 17:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by wilco254 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to make some changes with yourself; your so-called friends aren't the problem; you are!
2006-11-12 17:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are probably just naive and these people knew it. Be more cautious, get to know people better before you commit to them.
2006-11-12 17:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop trustin people and callin them ur friend so early!!! That may fix the problem!!!!
2006-11-12 17:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋