For those whose spouses had online personals ad...?

Question

1. how did you find out about it?
2. how did you react?
3. did your spouse find out and if so, how did they find out?
4. was there any type of resolution to the situation?
5. have you been able to forgive? Forget?


(I'm talking about any personals ads.... whether it was on normal sites or on 'adult' sites.)

Answer 1

I know his ID and password. Easy to figure out because I set up on his e-mail.
Felt angy, betrayed, and strangely relieved.
Yes, I told him about it.
Yes, I left him.
Yes, forgiven but not forgotten.