She was making a Christmas play for my church and I was going to be Mary, and the guy that I like was going to be Joseph. Then he told me he liked me and she switched the parts on me, WITHOUT telling me. Now I'm Gabriel and his sister is Mary. Should I tell her she hurt my feelings or not? I mean I am really hurt and mad about it. What should I do?
2006-11-12 08:45:06 · 17 answers · asked by Erriyberry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh ya, my guy doesn't know yet.
2006-11-12 08:50:48 · update #1
She's against dating too.
2006-11-12 08:59:57 · update #2
You should really tell her about it. I can tell you're a Christian, and that would be the right thing to do. (WWJD) Don't yell at her or anything, just consult her gently. She might have switched them unintentionally, after all.
2006-11-12 08:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, you must tell her that she hurt your feelings. Besides, you can't play a guy in a Christmas play, that's crazy!! Tell her what she did and how it made you feel. Ask her if you can Mary again just so you can at least be playing a female in the play. Be sure to cool down first. If she says no then start your own play. It doesn't gotta be about baby Jesus. You could do one about some kids who discover what Christmas means or make it kinda hip hop style, or something like that. Don't worry, you'll be OK and it's just a play. After the play you can talk to the guy all you want w/o her telling you what to do. She may the boss of the play but she's not the boss of your life.
2006-11-12 08:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense or anything, but why are your feelings hurt? It's not like your best friend betrayed your trust by making out with the guy or saying horrible things about you to him! If that were the case then I could see you being hurt. Also, you're still in the play with this guy. And besides, it's a church play - it's not like Joseph or Mary would be kissing. ANyways, I say just don't take it personal. Find out if her reasons for switching your part - it's probably not that serious. Good Luck.
2006-11-12 08:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he likes you - I wouldn't worry too much about not getting the part opposite him. As for your friend, if you think you may hold a grudge, than talk it out now. If you think you can let it go without talking to her than don't bother bringing it up so you don't have a fight over it. I wouldn't be overly concerned about her switching the part because you'll still get to be around him in the play whether or not you are opposite him. It's not like she put another girl he could be interested in instead of yourself - it is just his sister.
2006-11-12 09:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by patgd25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 04:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the best Gabriel that you can! If he likes you, he will keep liking you despite the recast. But if he knows you are bitter about being recast, he may think differently of you. So be the best Gabriel, and woo him by being a lady.
As for your friend...ignore her childish behavior. But, keep an eye out for other sabotage. A friend that is constantly sabotaging you isn't a friend.
2006-11-12 08:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by ValentineP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chin up! Do your part in then Xmas. play. She may not have meant to hurt you. The play turns out well everything will be okay. If she is your best friend you can ask her why, too.
2006-11-12 08:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes him, and i think shes not a good friend because she take away your part a good friends never do that take you away from the guy you like a good friend make somethig to put you guys together. show her you mad
2006-11-12 08:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by karinazyvora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, imagine I'm a spichiatrist. calmly talk to her and tell her that she hurt her feelings. maybe she'll understand and concider switching you back, and maybe she had a good reason for switching you.
2006-11-12 08:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH! That hurt a lot. Obiously, your friend is JEALOUS! You should talk to her and that guy. Your friend wasn't very fair. If my friends did that - they'd be in for some yells!
2006-11-12 08:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋