Why are my old friends BECOMING gay?

Question

OK.. I tried to blame it on feminism and got a bunch of responses that men are genetically gay..

In that case.. why is it, that I have personal friends, including one who dated my friends sister for 15 years no less.. all who never once showed any interest in being gay.. and all part of a macho group of alpha males who were all very blokey.. yet diverse.. ie. one works in IT, one is a plumber.. one is black one is white.. and so one..

I have known these people personally.. all have had issues with dating.. and now.. in mid to late 30's.. they are having their FIRST homosexual experiences..

Now I ask you.. is that GENETIC???

Or is it that these guys, often from poor socieconomic backgrounds.. have had a GUTFUL of being treated like crap by females??

For the record.. my scorn is not with ONE lousy ex.. I was homeless once.. and now I am a sucessful "full package" .. ask me how many times a woman actually hleped me when I was homeless.. the boys pulled though for me..

Answer 1

Is it me, or is this a moronic question?

Answer 2

I don't know what is going on to be honest....there seems to be some kind of wide-spread sexuality crisis going on, for men at least anyway. I think because women have a less black and white view of sexuality they will always naturally be more secure...for instance they can think and dream all they like about doing stuff with other women and still not even question their sexuality.....I think women have a more clear grasp of fantasy/reality too, they don't feel any pressure to make the leap from one to the other.

It's a very complex thing, I don't think you can blame it on just women not being nice enough to these guys or whatever....woman are always feeling/being let down by guys but we aren't all turning because of it.

Answer 3

This is like your other question.
I agree with much you say.

But let's put it this way, developing a wonderful relationship with one of the opposite sex is a dream most young people are blessed to have.
At least, that has traditionally been the case ... ie until Feminism took over, tried to make men out of women, and put females into becoming the almost exclusive educational experience of all young people. Well over 90% teachers for young people under 13 today are women!!!
That is, feminism has paved the way, variously, for women to completely dominate one's young education.
So, with female teachers feminizing young boys for the past 30 years, the boys now no longer know whether they are Arthur or Martha; do they??

Also, as I was saying earlier, the dream is there, but even WITH that dream alive and well, it was difficult enough as it was, for girls and guys to learn to love, befriend and well understand one another, without really making it hard with this terrible feminist rubbish. .. and political correctness.
Now they don't know what to expect!
And, as females have been taught to be assertive, and put their careers and own interests first, the selfish bent of the modern doctrine makes living together responsibly a very obscure outcome indeed.

As you say, men have not only lost the plot now ... women lost much of the plot long ago ... so they simply find whoever will have sex with them - no strings attached, and hope that is their best answer these days.
Well of course, it's not .. and it eventually makes for a very sad and lonely life, and poor end to life especially.

GENETICS??
RUBBISH ... just more Modern feminist and now Gayist doctrine ... modern doctors and scientists 'offer what they think will sell'.
They engineer any research to meet the desired findings.
So, they are the least reliable.
Money Speaks there!

Yes; women have been taught to see their own noses - not far past them; so I can understand that they did not lend much of a hand over the past 35 years in helping needy.
They have just 'lost the plot'.
Hence, your Gays!

Answer 4

Well some people are predisposed to it but can't even admit it to themselves. I think some people are perfectly capable of suppressing homosexual tendencies for years. Many people want to be "normal" to be a better "fit" in society, but I think many are realizing that it is now far more acceptable than it has ever been. As a consequence, they are now capable of admitting to themselves and to society that they are homosexual. I'm not saying that this is what is going on with your friends, because I don't know. But it is a possibility. Why don't you sit your friends down and just ask them? That sure would shed some light on what is going on.

Answer 5

Sounds to me that they always were Gay. Quite common in a society where being Gay is frowned on, for Gay men to try to convince themselves that they aren't Gay. This can only work for so long, then the pretense has to fall.
They all had issues with dating? There's a clue.

Answer 6

There is a proven genetic component for being gay...but it is only one component. Technically, there is no such thing as a gay man. There are straight men and there are bisexual men...but no homosexual men. What has come to be referred to as homosexual men are men that are bisexual (with the genetic component) but have decided upon men as opposed to women in the same way we might choose coffee over tea, for example. However, there is a very strong social pressure in the gay community to deny the truth of this, and any man who decides to go back to women is socially abused to a much greater extent within the gay community than any gay person is socially abused in open society. So, they are more cruel to their own than anybody else is to them! Now, if women start to become spoiled (as they are in our society due to feminism) and difficult to deal with, I CAN see a slight swing in these bisexual men to prefer to be with other men...but I don't think it would occur to any great degree. You might be in a somewhat unique situation...a high proportion of bisexual men along with a high proportion of spoiled women.

Answer 7

Ever heard of being "in the closet?"

Being "macho" is no clear indicator of sexual preference.

Being gay is hard. It is not accepted. Some gay people try to hide their homosexuality, from others and from themselves. It can take years to be able to accept themselves for themselves, and to work up the nerve to come out to their friends and family. Judging from your questions, you are vindictive and blame others for your difficulties. It does not surprise me that you would be one of the last people to know about your friends' homosexuality.

They probably had issues dating women BECAUSE THEY ARE GAY MEN.

Answer 8

They are screwed up in the head. And lazy. No figuring what screwed them up. But I don't buy this BORN HOMO crapola. It's a lifestyle choice.

Hetero relationships are difficult, complex and often seem to be more trouble than they are worth.

Sounds like your buddies are just taking the easy way out - or in.

Answer 9

Gay is an adjective meaning "carefree", "happy", or "bright and showy"; however in modern usage, gay is a word usually used, as either a noun or adjective, to refer to same-sex sexual orientation — homosexuality.

"Gay", when used as an adjective, sometimes describes traits associated with both queer, or homosexual, men and women, culture or lifestyle. The term lesbian, on the other hand, is used exclusively in a gender-specific way to describe women who prefer sexual relations with other women.

ITS GENETIC! Science says you get those genes from your mom.

Answer 10

Curiosity. Feelings they didn't really have with females. Bad experiences with females..

Answer 11

no just get over you anger or you will never be happy, you can't blame anything that goes on in your life on a group