My boyfriend and I of 6 years has just moved in together in August and he has started a new job he works monday through friday he leaves the house around 5 am and does not get home till aroud 4pm...I work Sat and Sun from 6:30 in the morning till 11pm so there not much time in the day for us to see each other Monday through Sunday...But here is the kicker he has been the most grouchest person since moving you would think he waould be so happy...SO the question what can I do to improve his mood...It is making me have thoughts of ending the 6 year relationship...Please Help!!!
2006-11-12 08:12:55 · 4 answers · asked by diamondangel_85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Communication is the key. It's a whole new world moving from boyfriend/girlfriend to roommates, lovers. Maybe he is still adjusting to some of his quirks, or maybe some of the things you do. Either way, the only way to know is to communicate. Talk it over. It would be a real shame to invest six years and moving in together over just an adjusting period. Find out whether it is this adjusting thought , living together, or maybe his new job. All of these may have some reason for this latest behavior. Best wishes and good luck in finding the answer from him that you want.
2006-11-12 08:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Gary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a perfect example of the old adage; you never really know a person until you move in with them. Alot of relationships cant survive the everyday stress of being together. Somehow it changes people and usually for the worse. It sounds like your heart and gut instinct are telling you what to do if you will only follow them. You just have to decide whether you are better off with or without him and go from there. It does sound like youve already made up your mind so time is now to do it if he wont. Good luck
2006-11-12 08:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different when people live together versus dating. When dating, regardless of the length of time, people always "get in the mood" for dating. When living together, all that goes away. What you may be seeing, is the "real" boyfriend. Talk to him, only way to understand what's going on. Could be job, could be you.
2006-11-12 08:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by Shogun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving in together is a huge change; give it some time, about six months to adjust, before making any decisions!
2006-11-12 08:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋