POLL QUESTION:
have YOU ever approached a cute stranger to flirt/ask for his number, etc.? (as opposed to *being* approached.)
OPTIONAL:
if yes,
1) were you really scared?
2) got any tips? horror stories? any guy body language to watch for (& what it means)? anything to avoid?
thanks girls!
2006-11-12 07:57:54 · 10 answers · asked by melon_rose 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You're always going to be nervous. Try to play it cool though. Don't let on that you're too nervous, but don't be overconfident. (Don't come off as bitchy.) Just be yourself, and casual. Guys don't like:
1. Clinginess. So be casual.
2. Bitchiness. Be polite.
3. Annoyingness. Be calm, not loud or overexcited.
4. Control freaks. Be cool.
5. Fakeness. Be yourself.
My advice? Take a deep breath.. and just do it.
2006-11-12 08:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by mango 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course I had to read, cause I am a guy. I think your question is interesting. In this day and age when women are in important, powerful positions ( Oprah, Hillary, Pelosi ) women still are back in the 50's when it comes to having any control over who they date, or even if they date at all. Waiting around for some guy to ask you out is so old school and yet 'modern' women of the new millenia, with all their tats, smoking cigars, low rise show it all clothing, STILL wait to be approached. And why is it women always complain about 1) not dating 2) not getting asked out 3) not liking their 'boyfriends, yet NEVER, EVER do anything about it? If you are going out with creeps, idiots, "men that only want one thing", you only have yourself to blame. If you have the brains to go to college or to have a good job, you should have the social skills to date the guy YOU want to. All you have to do is ask . . . .
2006-11-12 08:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by commonsense 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have to. Guys usually aproach me. The only time that I have ever done that was to take the attention from some other girl. Once that was done, I compleatly ignored the guy and went with someone else. But to answer your question, no, i wasn't scared, and if you want any tips, just e-mail me, and I'll help you out.
2006-11-12 09:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Yay! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i enjoyed him then specific i'd sense uncomfortable considering i does no longer desire him to waste his money on me for no reason, If i did no longer love him i assume it would be stated as 'using him' and so i does no longer care if he offered me costly issues considering it is why i'm relationship him interior the 1st place :)
2016-12-10 07:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nopeeeeee!
2006-11-12 08:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that I can recall. Doing that would make me nervous and anxious.
2006-11-12 14:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by True 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way would I ever do that. he could be a psycho.
2006-11-12 08:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, im way to shy, sorry
2006-11-12 08:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!
2006-11-12 08:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-11-12 08:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋