my mom is letting me pick my own punishment, but i dotnn know wht to do. help me!
2006-11-12 07:57:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i got really bad grades. im 13
2006-11-12 08:12:05 · update #1
I think you should choose military school and your mother should choose some parenting classes, no wonder you are so ill discplined if your mother is even too lazy or stupid to punish you.
2006-11-12 07:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about picking a punishment that will relate to what you are in trouble for? A good idea might be something like: I will do all of my homework first thing when I get home from school and I will do an extra 30 minutes of studying before I can play/watch tv/go online/talk on the phone, etc
2006-11-12 09:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Kaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason she is letting you pick your own punishment. She is trying to make you realize that eventually you will have to make your own decisions in life, and she won't be there to help. So it will be up to you. She wants to trust you and she wants you to do good in life, and bad grades isn't the way to go. Ground yourself for 2 weeks, no phone, no internet, no tv.......just studying and reading, and maybe the phone or soemthing but show her that you are responsible and that you can improve your grades. Don't let her down, but don't put to much pressure on yourself she will love you no matter what!!!
~Pisce-Pegasus
2006-11-12 10:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your mom is testing you on how you'll act in the future-w/ your kids.maybe a weeks grounding, no more computer for a week, or just doin some extra chores would be a good option.if you pick the right punishment, and carry it out, you might end up w/ a few extra privileges.
2006-11-12 08:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick a punishment that will give your mom the idea that you are taking your punishment seriously.
2006-11-12 08:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not only will you study for 1 hour every night but you find some charity to volunteer at 1 day every two weeks for six months and hey maybe you'll like it and keep doing it.
2006-11-12 10:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ground your self for like a day or something...to show ur responcible but ur not punishing ur self too much. Also like find a chore ur mom hates and do it
2006-11-12 08:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good puzzling spanking with a wood hairbrush mutually with your pants and undies down. The spanking could be over the knee and your God mom can not provide up spanking you until you're crying and essentially promising to be good. next time do not cuss out your instructor and push your God sister and you will not get spanked.
2016-11-23 17:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by szewc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIve up your ipod/cel phone/internet access for a week. Pick something you know will show your mom you understand how serious what you did was. If you think it was a minor offense, maybe extra chores. If you think it was serious, give up something that means a lot to you.
2006-11-12 07:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by QuickQuestion 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
pick something that she THINKS is important to you, but really isnt.
haha
im kidding.
just tell her you will do extra chores or walk the dog (if you have one) for 2 weeks every day
2006-11-12 09:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by tangerine9561 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋