ok. now my friend invited me over to play basketball. she said that she wanted to help me with it bcuz the try outs are soon. i asked her if her dad was gunna be there because if he was i would't wanna go. he's not, so i am gunna go. when i was on the phone with her i wanted to ask if her dad was gunna be there. so i acted as if i wanted her dad to be there. did i handle this situation well?
2006-11-12 07:48:21 · 10 answers · asked by peace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am assuming that you don't want to hurt your friends feelings and that you have a good reason for not wanting to be around her dad. If her dad is hurting you or scares you for some reason though, I don't think you should go there at all. Invite her to your house. If you don't have a BB Goal, maybe you should tell her you'd rather meet at a park to play.
You probably handled it pretty good for now though, as long as her Dad doesn't come home while you're there, and then your stuck. Your friend might tell her Dad that you are sorry you missed him and he might make it a point to be around when you're there. If that happens, your plan has backfired!
You should probably discuss this with your parents and let them know you're uncomfortable being around this man. Maybe they can help!
Good Luck!
2006-11-12 08:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by lisa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well when I read that, I could see you were having some problems with her dad... that's perfectly fine I've had experiences like that too. Maybe you shouldn't have specifically asked about her dad. It would be better if you asked who would be there, but it was a great idea how you pretended to want her dad to be there. Hope this answers your question!
2006-11-12 07:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is going on that you don't want to play if her dad is there? This sounds weird. I feel like something is missing in this narrative about the friends Dad. If he makes you uncomfortable, just tell her you're uncomfortable playing when he's around.
2006-11-12 07:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kyle Petty?!! You hafta be kidding. additionally, I bear in innovations Mark Martin a pair years in the past saying that a million/2 the adult males on the music wouldn't have a license to force, not to show force in NASCAR. additionally, somebody truthfully mentioned Stewart, lmao. i could ought to pass with Carl Edwards, Burton, Kahn.
2016-10-21 23:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... so basically you made yourself sound like you *wanted* him there? Well... i don't *see* the situation needed handling here... if you were close friends she wouldn't have cared if you wanted her dad there or not...
2006-11-12 07:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really but im sure you could of done it a better way...
2006-11-12 07:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by MistyBlu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe not. I mean wat is wrong with her dad being there. Maybe you should try something else.
2006-11-12 08:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are good...a real pro
2006-11-12 07:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no
2006-11-12 07:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no u dnt.
2006-11-12 07:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋