im so UGLY?

Question

okay so everybody says im pretty but im like no i have acne that proactive sorta helped and i have glasses dirty blonde hair im like 5'0 and im skinny and every body says your so flippin skinny! but i feel so hideous! how can i learn to except that im ugly? =( im sad

and look at my pic www.myspace/laura_holt really am i ugly?

Answer 1

I doubt if you are ugly. It's all in your head. Somewhere along the line, someone stole your self esteem. You need to get it back.

Answer 2

I'm assuming your a teenager? I was like that when I was young, just for some reason no matter what people say you just have it in your head that your ugly when your probably really not. It's just mainly all these lil flaws that you have to come with growing up into your own body makes you feel ackward. Believe leave you will grow out of it and most people will not lie about you being beautiful or not so just take their word for it as a compliment. As you get older all those little flaws will disapear and you start realizing how beautiful you really are.

Answer 3

I don't think you're ugly. Everyone's got acne. Live with it. I've got acne, but it's very mild.

I quit using that Pro Active crap a long time ago. That stuff is a waste of money. Save your money and buy Clearasil's Daily Face Wash. Trust me! It worked for me. Wash your face twice a day. In the morning and at night before you go to bed.

There's nothing wrong with wearing glasses. I think a lot of girls look attractive wearing glasses.
As for your hair, you can dye it if you don't like it.

Being 5'0 is nothing to be upset about. People come in different shapes, sizes, and colors. That's what makes all of us unique and interesting.

I looked at your picture. I think you're pretty.

Answer 4

Learn to be happy with yourself is the most important thing.
If the acne is the biggest issue, wash with quality face scrub (Mary Kay or other good brands) 2 or 3 times a day. I don't know your age, but the pill will help regulate the hormones that can cause acne, doesn't mean you have to be active, it's just for your skin. If you have acne on you chest and back that's the best solution. If you ask your doctor they will recommend it, but they wont generally bring it up, for moral issues, so you will have to.

Answer 5

I actually looked at your picture. You're fine--I'd say on the cute side. I have some self esteem issues like that. Honestly, my husband helps the most (there's nothing like someone telling you your hot every day to make you feel better), but I find that wearing clothes that flatter my figure and coloring really help. Also, and this will sound really mean, but try hanging around people who don't look as good as you do--that will also help.
Again, you're NOT ugly.

Answer 6

I'm sure you are not ugly. Some kids go though a gawky phase...I don't really know if you are a kid, but from your writing I would say you are early teens.

Every girl has self doubt and is super critical of their own looks. If you weren't pretty, people wouldn't tell you you were. You need to work on your self confidence because it is only going to bring you down in life if you don't love yourself...no one can love you (except family of course) unless you love yourself fully.

Good luck, beautiful girl!

Answer 7

about your acne:
get a acne cream like facial clear or something and use facial cleaners
a girl in my class has dirty blonde hair and she picks up her hair and it looks very elegant (bun) you have a nice height and you have low self-esteem do not worry about it you are beautiful on the inside and out and do not think different you are very pretty do not ever say you are ugly just say I am very pretty and do not get down in the dumps because you feel that way

Answer 8

self esteem....hun, you need to work on that, you sound really pretty, you just need to accept the fact that you are....everyone finds something wrong with them and fuss over it, you fuss about your looks, but dont worry about it, if people think youre pretty then you probably are. you just need to feel better about yourself
1. buy something expensive like a cute handbag or jeans!
or get a few extra clothes to add to your wardrobe, if you better your style then you can up your self esteem...try stores like hollister and abercrombie ....coach for a handbag

2. get a new haircut that really compliments your features, with a new haircut that looks good, youll feel good

3. plan a date with a group of friends to go to the movies or to the mall!

4. get some contact lenses, this might be the main reason why you feel ugly, contact lenses really do change your look , itll really bring out your eyes and you wont be hiding behind your glasses anymore!
hope i helped! and try to feel better about yourself like instead of thinking of the bad features you have(not many), think of the good things!

Answer 9

You may be sick of hearing this but if you can't accept it then at least try to change it, get contacts like me and wear clothes that make you look smaller, I'm pretty tall for a 6th grader but I chose the right clothes and I've had plenty of bfs and friends, to deal with the skinnyness I don't know y you wouldn't want to be? but You could at least gain some weight with junk food, you don't have to accept it, just try to chabnge :)

Answer 10

It's all in your head, get over it. Maybe you need help...talk to a therapist about your "issues". Maybe you are ugly and people are just trying to be nice to you. Either way, it doesnt matter what you look like on the outside. It's all about inner beauty. You can work on the outside...

Answer 11

It sounds like you are the only one who thinks you are ugly. We are our own worst critics. Who doesn't have flaws?????

If you ask anyone, everyone will tell you a flaw that they have. We all have zits/pimples at one time in our lives. Even models have to have their pictures fixed. I get pimples and I am an adult. If you don't worry about them, no one will notice either. If you notice other people have them too.

You have to except yourself for who you are. Focus on your strengths and your weaknesses won't be as noticeable. Tell yourself your good aspects. They are not as noticeable to others as you think.