what would you do if you had a friend that never stopped calling and has been annoying you and talks forever?
2006-11-12 05:27:22 · 13 answers · asked by Kenz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i live in a small town and we are a class c school with like a little under 200 people in k-12 and in my class there is like 6 girls and we are all kinda friends and but there is one girl that really stinks and there is another girl that lies all the time and she is the one that calls everybody all of the time
2006-11-12 05:44:05 · update #1
and if i say something she will not like me anymore and she does not have anymore friends :$
2006-11-12 05:59:25 · update #2
I HAD the same problem. My old friend always wanted to be around me and with me and it got on my nerves. So, i know you might hate this, i just sat her down and told her. We are still friends and all but not awhole lot. She actually now has a friend just like her so I told "Just picture it like you where the annoying one, what would you want me to say?" And well... you get the story.
2006-11-12 05:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Iris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I have been such a friend in the past and I have been tempted to be the same thing again.
Well, I realized that my friends didn't enjoy to spend time with me anymore and the reason was for the constant "spyness".
You should tell your friend to stop calling and talking that much. From my point of view he/she wants to share everything with you (all his/her thoughts, feelings, problems, daily situations, imagination, etc.). Just don't stop loving him/her, but tell him/her to take it easy.
2006-11-12 13:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by dioshy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start making up excuses why I had to get off the phone. Hopefully if you keep telling her you have to go she will get the point and not call so much. If that doesn't work, you should just tell her that you don't much like to talk on the phone.
2006-11-12 13:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the person be a bully with you, but be gentle, be kind-hearted and try to be understanding. This person is hurting, but isn't able to tell you what the REAL problem is. Find a time when you can talk in private to this person to try to find out what the REAL problem is and gently explain your feelings to her, too. Don't let your integrity be compromised.
2006-11-12 13:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use caller ID and refuse to answer the phone. You may just have to tell this person to stop calling.
2006-11-12 13:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to draw healthy boundaries with them. You'll need to be direct, and they might take offense, but it's the only way to get your space back. The'll eventually find someone else to drive crazy.
2006-11-12 13:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by stargazerjimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End the call when I felt like it, rather than when she stopped talking. You're in charge of how long you listen.
2006-11-12 13:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend (more of a person who dnt leave ) thats doz that, just jump in2 the convo or say ur fone broke
2006-11-12 13:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well what id do is avoid him but thats kind of mean i dont know what id do its really hard to know you know idk if it would be a good idea to tell them straight up that there annoying they might start up trouble
2006-11-12 13:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be honest with that person, because if your not then you will be annoyed and that person may get hurt because they think you really like them. BE HONEST!!!
2006-11-12 13:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by angelkitten1211 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋