Explain your answers and what will the child act like?
Will the socity be better or worst? What will the family
values be like?
2006-11-12 05:11:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
You can never say, unless you know the mothers involved.
Say the Working Mom is lazy. Goes to work, yes. Comes home, does not cook or clean for her child. The child gets what it wants just so the mother can have peace and quiet. It stays up late and falls to sleep whenever. She constantly forgets to wake him up for the bus and has to take him to school, come home, rush to get ready for work and looks a slob all day. Their values are self first in everything, get what you want, others don't matter.
Say the Working Mom is industrious and clean. Cooks dinner every nite and makes sure Timmy does his homework, takes his bath and goes to bed on time and behaves. She gets him up in time for school, gets herself ready for work and is never late, looking great. Values would be, think of others, be responsible (be on time, think of others, dress nice for them, don't rush, start early), your actions count, put your best foot forward, etc.
So, just because 2 working moms (are working) doesn't mean negative things can't be attached to one. The same thing is true with the Stay-at-home Mom, she can either do a good job as a wife and mother or NOT!
2006-11-12 05:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am proud to say that I've been a stay-at-home Mom but I also keep other children in my home to support us money wise. I did it for 25+ years and it gave my kids someone to play with and taught them how to get along with others. I know now days it is not always an option for a lot of people, but I would encourage it if it's possible.
2006-11-12 05:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by Texas T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is higher for the household for the mother to stick residence. If the mother is residence she will handle the youngsters, it makes the youngsters extra good rounded to understand mommy is regularly there. It takes strain off the mum and dad of getting to fear approximately how their youngsters are being handled on the day care. We realize all approximately the horror reports of day cares at the present time. Also, having the lady be at residence and the person paintings is how it will have to be. Men are vendors via nature and Women are nuturers via nature. I consider if mothers began placing their households first and staying residence that our youngsters could prove plenty higher than they have got. My mother stayed residence and took care of my sister and I. We by no means obtained into medicines and we obtained well grades in university. If she hadn't of been residence to crack the wip there could be a well risk it would not of been that well. I am a keep at residence mother and I love understanding that my youngsters regularly have me while they want me and likewise that I am regularly right here for my husband, due to the fact he demands me simply up to my kids.
2016-09-01 11:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by cheuvront 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about the BALANCE! Yeah, such options and perfection of the dream wasn't part of my reality so I stayed home with mine (and yup, on welfare part of the time) until each were able to talk and tell me what was going on with them whenever I wasn't around. -How they were feeling, what they'd been doing and with who... This allowed me to be there for their first, very formative years, and the ability to communicate with my kids (three daughters) gave me peace of mind when I went back to work and they each, in turn, started Early Head Start at age 4 or so. Society better? Yeah! Family Values ----hmmm, safety from predators and #@(! wipes, yeah, better! -Please note- this answer full of attitude due to first marriage to regressive pedophile and immediate divorce shortly after she learned to talk...Have I shared too much? ...aaahhh well, we should all learn from reality.
2006-11-12 05:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by pitywiggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether or not the mom works makes no difference, IF she still spends quality time with her kids. parents are so busy trying to keep up with the neighbors that their focus sometimes becomes money. stay in the smaller house, drive the older car, if that allows you to be with your family more. sadly we're more focused on the quantity of things in our life than on the quality of the life.
2006-11-12 05:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If any family can afford to keep a parent at home, their children can be better off. Several friends of mine have been stay-at-home dads, BTW, it isn't a mother-only niche.
But few families can afford to do so anymore.
2006-11-12 05:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stay at home mom but one that cooks read to ur kids take them out not just lay around and do nothing but if you can get a parttime and get out on time to be with ur kids and give them love ,then that will be great too!
2006-11-12 05:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a working mom who knows how to balance her family and career..
2006-11-12 05:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋