I wish my mom would have aborted me. I wouldn't have missed anything. For every good thing that happens, 10 bad things happen so what's the point? None of that garbage about friends and family and all, as I don't have much of either.
2006-11-12 05:09:24 · 8 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Sometimes, I have wished that, but never strongly enough to want to do anything about it. You have a daughter and that ought to be good reason to keep going, even if things are rough between the two of you at the moment. You have to set an example for her. At the very least, you should keep reading the Job Classifieds, so that you can find something better than the one you have. Can't you talk about this with anyone you know? What happened to your boyfriend?
2006-11-14 02:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by AnOrdinaryGuy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go through a lot of spells like what you are experiencing. Yours may not be a spell and something you deal with every day, but you aren't alone. I have had a lot of great things happen in my life from graduating college to getting married, but whenever anything goes wrong, I always say I still wish I was dead. It's like the good doesn't compare to the bad when the bad hits. It really is hard to explain how deep the brain can go to be miserable.
It's supposed to be a chemical imbalance that I should be on medication for. Called bi-polar disorder, either depressed or manic. I've done medication for 10 years off and on, probably totalling about 5-6 years on, been off for the past year. I recommend the medication, especially lexapro if you can get on it. I just decided to get off of it when I got married-spouse's wish.
I hope you find your reason for being on this earth. Be an opportunist (always looking for an opportunity to do something new or an advancement) and work really hard toward the goal of being happy. In other words, don't work a job you hate, like I have done, don't date someone that doesn't treat you right, like I have done and work really hard to maintain your relationships with people (or repair them.)
I hope this helps.
2006-11-12 05:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's little point in "wishing" you had never been born -- you were, and all the wishing in the world won't change that.
You seem to be blaming external events and people for the condition of your life -- I'm sorry you feel that way. Of course those can have an effect on you, but the only one who can determine the quality of your life is YOU -- not your mother, not your family, not your friends. You're the one that has control of your own life, and it will be what you make of it, nothing more or less.
Decide you want to have a good life, and set some goals for yourself to achieve what you think will make it "good," and work towards those goals -- that's all any of us can do. Take control of your own life and your own happiness. Best of luck.
2006-11-12 05:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I felt like that for a lot of my life. my dad died of a brain haemmorage after a stroke when I was 4, my brother committed suicide when I was 10 and my mum died of ovarian cancer when I was 12. Then I got moved to my aunt and uncles. My uncle was a sarcastic prat, my aunt had a major anger problem and was AWFUL - she was later diagnosed with manic depression.
I spent my teens and 20's going out with men who were addicted to drugs or alcohol and who treated me badly.
I had a chronic pain illness (fibromyalgia) and no confidence or self esteem.
My whole life turned around about 4 years ago and I came out of the depression I was in, for various reasons, mostly because I sunk so incredibly low in a crazy relationship with an addict who ended up in prison, that I finally sought help. I was so messed up.
I'm so glad I didn't give in.
The bit you don't want to hear:
In time I learned to be honest about how I felt about situations and to open up to people and make myself vulnerable and to trust. I learnt to look at my own behaviours and not blame others. I learned to accept the world as it was.
As a result I have a good life today.
I wish you luck, and hope your life turns around for you one day soon.
2006-11-12 05:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ambience 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when I get depressed I wish I wasn't here either, But then I remember that life is a short journey anyway. Best to focus on the good experiences while your here because you'll be dead waaaay longer than you'll be alive.
2006-11-12 05:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life is what you make of it...especially as an adult...I'm sorry to hear yours hasn't been great and hope you will decide to change that...
If you do, you will find that not only will you not wish you'd never been born, but be oh so glad that you were!
Go for it...it's all up to you!
2006-11-12 05:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry to here that , as we get older though
we can make our own lives worth living
and start our own familys . Then
you can do it the right way , and show
your own kids what life should be
with loving parents .
2006-11-12 05:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you hadn't been born, too.
2006-11-12 05:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by lucyanddesi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋