ok my ex called me 3 days a go and offered to buy me shoes????remember he is my x.....is it okay to except the gift i have to see him next weekend for our daughter and if he did get them then what do i do???i all ready told him that i don't need them but he insisted???
2006-11-12 04:55:48 · 15 answers · asked by wendy p 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For him to buy you a pair of shoes means he wants something in return.....are you willing to give him what he wants? If that answer is no, then don't take the shoes. Once you take the shoes, he has some leverage over you, like a "bargaining" tool if you please. Unless you NEED the shoes, tell him NO WAY! If he already bought them, tell him to get a refund. An ounce of prevention, is worth a pound of cure!
2006-11-12 05:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Nice shoes - wanna screw?" will be the next question he asks.
He is insisting because his johnson needs a cruise up the old Tunnel of Love and he's not getting any anywhere else right now.
He hopes you're an easy lay, so feel welcome to become his zero-class booty call by accepting the shoes.
2006-11-12 14:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is wrong with this picture. An ex doesn't buy shoes for an ex unless he has ulterior motives. Insist that you don't want them, but you'll take money for Child Support.
2006-11-12 13:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can accept the shoes. Or offer to pay him for them. They should come with no strings attached - that you meet with him a few times.
Treat it as a gift or that he was thinking of you and picked up something for you as a friend.
2006-11-12 14:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either your current selection of shoes are WAY ugly, or he's trying to get you naked.
Remember the old song:
"just take what men may give you, and give but what you can"
2006-11-12 12:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Trump 2020 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is important to maintain control of our own lives. You said you didn't want them and he insists? So does that mean he can insist on other things?
Don't start things you don't plan to finish. That's my advice.
2006-11-12 13:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take them but dont feel that you are obligated to do anything in return. If he is wanting something in return then don't accept them
2006-11-12 12:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look a gift horse in the mouth take them
2006-11-12 13:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by traveller 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's ok for your daughter since he's the father(?). but for you I'd watch out because he might want something in return.
2006-11-12 12:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by nyy35moose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wonder what he was buying me shoes for so just be clear if you acept them that this gift comes with no strings...c,mon though,,,these are shoes,,,,,,
2006-11-12 13:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋