I am having questions about my sexuality. Lately i have been strongly attracted to our drum major in band. We just became friends and i find myself strongly attracted to her. (She's really pretty.) i know for a fact that she is a lesbian. What should i do?
2006-11-12 04:46:12 · 8 answers · asked by izzy988 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe i didn't quite word my question correctly. I am positive that i do like her. it is definetly more than me just admiring her looks.
2006-11-12 08:04:11 · update #1
only you can awnser that
2006-11-12 04:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, if this is your first time to be attracted to the same sex then that could only be admiration. dont judge your sexuality right away. maybe you like her because she's pretty and she drums very good though for the fact that she is a lesbian. liking a gay person does not mean that its gonna make you one too.
2006-11-12 13:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by Riz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing I do know.. Love is more than physical attraction. Its the emotional attraction as well...
if you're attracted by her looks.. well the possiblity of u bein in a passin phase is higher than you bein a homosexual...
Or simply cuz u're explorin ur sexuality?
Dun constrain your options so early. be open and see how things go alrite? take care.
cheers.
2006-11-12 12:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by Rae T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out! Many people say you only get one chance at life. Make the most of it. If you like her that way, then ask her out.
2006-11-12 18:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to go to a movie or sports event with you. While you're there, you can mention how pretty she is...and then see what happens. Good luck!
2006-11-12 12:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think real hard first...u might just think shes pretty or like her like her...fantasize and see how u like it..then figure it out from there..
2006-11-12 12:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it see if shes interested
2006-11-12 13:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carpet muncher.
2006-11-12 12:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 0⤊ 6⤋