This guy that I used to like really hates me & I he told his friend that was on my friends list to delete me from it because she isn't on my friends list anymore & etheir is he.
She deleted me from it a week after he deleted me from his.
I talk to someone that he used to work with & who he is friends with.
What if he tells that guy bad things/bad stuff about me & calls me bad names like a whore?
(1.) Do u think the guy will believe him???
What if he tells that guy not to talk to me anymore?
(2.) Do u think the guy will listen to him & not talk to me anymore???
(3.) How will/would I know if that guy tells that other guy bad things/bad stuff about me & calls me bad names like a whore to him???
(4.) How would I know if he tells that guy not to talk to me anymore???
(5.) What all should I do???
Everyone please reply soon:*( :*( :*(
2006-11-12 04:28:45 · 18 answers · asked by Jill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Respond with peace and love. If people believe bad things about you, they either do not know you well, or they are revealing their own character.
Life is never free of conflict, but you can still be happy. And your happiness will draw people to you.
2006-11-12 04:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin James Hammer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really dosn't matter what other ppl will be saying about you cuz ppl always "talk" you should be nice to everyone even the guy thats talking bad about you. you ever hear this b4: what goes around comes around? well one day he'll know exactly how you feel. so just be yourself, let ppl see your good side without getting all mad and spreading things about the guy, this will only make things worst and besides your true friends will be your friends thru thick and thin no matter what so if that person deleted you from the list and wouldn't talk to you anymore, they wornt your true friend in the first place. don't be depressed about it, go out right now and do something you like everything will work out for the best!
2006-11-12 04:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, ya' know, there'll ALWAYS be some who'll badmouth you. When you're in a circle of friends, people, and some are behaving the way you're describing, well, it just looks to me like this is your chance to act on your impulse to stand tall, develop, grow up some. You don't have to be pulled down to the level of behavior these guys are acting with.
So, try this:
When unkind things are said, CONSIDER THE SOURCE. Others know who's doing the badmouthing, and how that goes on a lot. They know who exaggerates, taunts, slanders, stirs up trouble and laughs when others are hurting. If you remain above it, others will see your conduct as well. People will have a good notion if you're a ho or not, and will simply be watching the show, as this guy (or others) does his thing, trying to stir up the drama.
You can watch too (don't respond and get sucked into it), and my bet is that sooner or later that guy will either trip his own self up, or SOMEbody's gonna' take offense and FUR WILL FLY.
Remember my favorite quote, by Eleanor Roosevelt: "you may as well do what you think is right, you're going to be criticized anyway".
Be good to yourself and keep tight with the friends who consistently treat you right.
2006-11-12 04:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let the guy you like or are talking to that he is going to spreading rumors because you all had a bad past. I dont think he believe them as long as you tell him the history of it. If he wont talk to you anymore, that is his loss!! I dont think the guy will listen to him, im sure you can tell him the history and he will ignore the rumors of the guy. I would just ask him if the guy says anything about you. IF he likes you he should take up for you. I dont know if you would know he told the guy anything. I am not for sure if he would tell you or not. I would just let the new guy knwo what is going on. Good luck.
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2016-11-23 17:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. took a while to read but I just have one thing to say. Not everyone likes everybody. He just doesnt like you and you can't force him to. Give him time, he'll come around. Just be a good friend and everything else will fall into place. Good Luck! :-D
2006-11-12 04:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by Lulu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about what others say about you...if it was really meant to be then this new guy won't listen to any of the negative things he has heard!
2006-11-12 04:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by Urban Chik 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well dont worry bout it and if that guy really likes you he wouldnt care what anyone had to say about you.
2006-11-12 04:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by dejohn m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop worrying so much about what others think. You know the truth about yourself and that's all that matters!
2006-11-12 04:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by tmac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
woww this is veryyy confusing! loll i think that you should not worry about little petty things like this! whoo cares if ur on their friends list or not...you should focus on things that really matter not if this jackass guy likes you or not
2006-11-12 04:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by whereHAVEallTHEcowboysGONE 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋