how did the guy feel if the woman had to go work someplace else?
If its not plain from the question, this is after working very closely as a team in the same office for several years, then the woman has to work someplace new. Not the other way round.
2006-11-12 04:22:30 · 10 answers · asked by Tertia 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its nice in a way - it makes the "what did you do today" question a bit less dull....
2006-11-12 04:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this same thing happened to me and my other half we worked together i was a driver and she worked in the office and she was sent to work for the head office that is 300 miles away. We have made it work by giving the odd text now and again (couple a day) then at night one will call the other for a chat thats about 10 mins some night but just depends what has to be said, we get on very well and are as strong as ever, she returns home once a week for a night or two and we are happy cause till we get to be together all the time again we are stong as we are, hows that?...
2006-11-12 12:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Adds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, this really strengthened the relationship. It may seem daunting initially as you are so used to working together but it will more than likely end up being a very positivally productive move as regards the relationship. Although you have worked well as a team for seven years the time will inevitably come when ye will need yer own space, just look at it this way, you do not mix business and pleasure. Although working and living together and being joined at the hip works for the small minority of couples, for truly passionate couples it is best to work in different places and have different friends from each workplace. All couples need time apart and working in different places counts. ye will appreciate each other more and enjoy the time together more. Different things work for different couples but this definately worked to our advantage, The best of luck
2006-11-12 12:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by miami180985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is a certain element of the male partner feeling slightly apprehensive, as the woman will be meeting new people (maybe new men lol) and doing new things. He may also be a little worried for his girlfriend as she will be the new person and he wants her to fit in and do well. Men always fear change, especially if it involves the other partner and not them. Just try to reassure him as much as you can. Hope this helped xx
2006-11-12 12:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Growth is always good. Meeting new people means new things to talk about and time away from your mate doing something positive is good for a relationship.
If the man's success at work depended on his mate, that could be a problem for them. But if he can hold his own weight, with our without her, it can be something very good. You both can be yourselves which is different that the self you are with you mate.
A strong, secure relationship has no problem with distance.
2006-11-12 12:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the woman has to go work someone else its fine. Being away from the person will make you closer to them. You will miss them.
2006-11-12 12:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better yet the question I think you need to answer is how do you feel? And why. You are obviously insecure. Figure out why.
2006-11-12 12:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its important to have some time by youself, and if you are working together than you really dont have that.
2006-11-12 12:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...I've never worked with my husband and never would!
2006-11-12 13:12:43 · answer #9 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know....relieved?
2006-11-12 12:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋