i have two best friends, that i love being with, but i wanna keep one more then the other, so when i am in a fight wit that one, i hget more upset then if i am in a fight wit another one. but i am a great friend, but they always seem to be talking behind my bak!! i dont get it!! and she still calls me a pesstimist?!!! i am sooo confused, and whenever she is hangin wit the other bff, she seems to always be ignorin me!! what should i do???????
2006-11-12 04:16:08 · 9 answers · asked by Avada Kedavra! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
but i wanna keep both friends, i mean they are practicly the only friend i have that i can trust!! i wanna keep them i just need help on what to do, and we r all goin 2 the movies in a while. help me win one of them over!!! dat is what i want, i want to win one of them ovr!
2006-11-12 04:21:10 · update #1
i mean, when there is only 2 of us, they are the best ppl in da world, when we all get 2 gether, we always seem to be fightin!
2006-11-12 04:26:13 · update #2
Have you tried talking to both of the girls? If not, do so. You want to keep both of them in your life but the fact that this girl talks about you behind your back shows that she is not a good friend at all. Friends don't talk about each other and they should be there for one another. Think about it: Do you want to be friends with someone who talks about you behind your back and ignores you or do you want to be friends with someone who doesn't do stuff like that? It's all up to you and do what you think is best for yourself. Hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-11-12 04:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haven't u ever heard the saying 2 is company 3 is a crowd. Well it works for 3 girls to.You best bet is to see them seperate.This way u can have both of them for friends.When 3 young people get together they fight over who gets who's ever attention they want.There is alot of conflict with 3 girls wanting to be the center of attention too. I had the same thing happen when I was young. Debbie and I wanted Sues attention. So Debbie and I fought all the time.It was either Debbie and Sue were mad at me.Or Sue and me were mad at Debbie. It was never Debbie and I mad at Sue.The only reason I can see for that happening is because Sues parents were gone in the morning and that was the place we hung out in the morning before school.Silly I know. You might want to get a 4th friend in the mix too. This will equal things out.Good luck
2006-11-12 12:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't have two best friends. one is your best friend and the other is a good friend. the way it sounds the two of them are best friends and you are the good friend that they like to talk about behind your back. stop all the drama...
2006-11-12 12:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
drop them there not your best friend if there always ignoring you and stuff it ll be hard at first but once you get use of being by yourself than it ll be better and you ll learn how to make new friends
2006-11-12 12:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by pretty lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have found that friends are there to stab you in the back. Makes you stronger i guess.
2006-11-12 12:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by Fred B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry i can't help you.But you probably shouldn't be looking for answers on here.
2006-11-12 12:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by Kaylin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what you think is right. Follow your heart.
2006-11-12 12:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel F5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find new friends
2006-11-12 12:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummm....Grow up?
2006-11-12 12:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by kyleemckenzie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋