My best friend’s relationship with her g/f just ended. he is depressed and is far from happiness. i m finding a new person for him ( certainly female) to let him get over his previous relationship. i m doubtful if i m doing right or not. i know his previous relationship cant be revived and if he still tries to keep a friendly relationship with his ex- girl which he wants to he will never be able to get over things all his life so I want him stop meeting his ex . am I doing right I don't know what to do
2006-11-12 03:24:50 · 7 answers · asked by J@W@D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its not wrong but i think you should give him time to move on if he starts seeing other girls now when he hasnt had a chance to move on the relationship will get ruined if i were you i would give him time to move on before getting him hooked up with someone else be there for him and try to comfort him and be positive!
2006-11-12 03:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i may well be positioned off through fact you maintain pointing out her. specific 5 years is a protracted time with somebody even with the undeniable fact that it would make me think of which you're merely comparing me along with her every time I turn around. Or which you permit out the previous circumstances and desire they have been back. i might sell off you. in case you prefer to instruct a girl which you will possibly nicely be unswerving and monogamous...then BE unswerving and mongamous. speaking approximately it potential crap. strikes talk louder than words.
2016-11-23 17:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a great friend!! BUT he needs to deal with this by himself. You could help, and be supportive, but don't take total control.
Don't find him a new girl. Let him find her. The right one will come.
I wouldn't reccomend ever being "friends" with your ex's, so you may wanna talk him out of it.
It doesen't make his healing process any easier.
Have an AWESOME day!!! ;-)
2006-11-12 03:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what you are doing is being a good friend. he needs to move on or he'll just continue to grieve over this girl. i hope the right one comes along for him. you might also tell whoever you are thinking of introducing him to, that he's just had a bad breakup and you don't want someone that's going to date him for a while and then dump him.
2006-11-12 03:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by Texas T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being a good friend It's not "wrong", but there are other ways to help him. you can be a good friend just by being there and getting him out doing things. You won't hurt him any but if he tells you he doesn't want to meet any girls respect his wishes.
2006-11-12 03:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very best way to get over one is to get another.
2006-11-12 03:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r really a sweet n caring frnd i must say!!!!!!!
but be sure u r'nt hurting his feelings....try to talk something else n let him forget bout this...
i wish to have such a caring frnd too!!!!!!!
2006-11-12 03:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋