I need to talk to someone that will help me understand my dreams..?

Question

I need to talk to someone that will help me understand my dreams..?
I have a lot of reoccuring dreams..I think they mean something. I have looked at dream dictionaries but they dont get in depth enough.
I am not sure who I would speak to about this.
I have a lot of dreams of me having an infant baby (I have no babies of my own) my baby is always smiling and laughing (its always a very happy baby)
Also I have dreams of my fiance holding hands and being in love with someone else..and he tries to tell me its over and wont let him say it,
anyone have dreams like this?

Answer 1

Dreams are different for everyone and no dream dictionary or guide can tell you what your dreams mean.

Though there are common factors amongst dreams for most people, only you will best know what your dreams are trying to tell you.

The second best person to help you figure it out would be someone who knows your life, not just a stranger on the internet or someone with even whom you are acquainted.
Best is someone who knows you intimately, such as a sister or best friend.
They have to know the inner workings of your life, so as to distinguish real facts from fantasy.

However,
the fact that these dreams are recurring points to something very important - you must pay attention to these dreams.
Recurring dreams repeat for a reason and they wil not stop until you have gotten their message.
Precognitive dreams are usually recurring, though not always.
You may or may not be correct about your Fiancè, however - don't jump to conclusions right now.

Try asking yourself before you go to bed for help in deciphering what your dream is trying to tell you...you may actually learn something!!

If you have any further questions,
feel free to write me and I will help you as best I can.

Answer 2

Dreams are the result of random brain stem activation that pass signals to the visual cortex during sleep. This produces random images and other sensory experiences which are the basis of your dreams. The brain tries to make sense of the random images by 'filling in the gaps' in the internally produced sensory display that results in the dream experience. Although ancient traditions and religious groups have tried to attribute supernatural forces to the bizaareness of the dream experience (due to lack of knowledge of the brain) dreams are not predictory or any more meaningful than random thoughts. The dream images are influenced by your current and recent experiences because the nerves that are more recently activated during waking experiences are more readily available to be activated 'randomly' during sleep as the connections between the nerve cells are likely to be stronger. Also the things that you have been thinking about a lot influence you dreams for the same reason. Recurring dreams may be caused by the signal following the same path through to your visual/sensory cortex, so what you need to do to get rid of these dreams is to change them yourself. Try practising lucid dreaming (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lucid_dreaming#Common_techniques) and once you have the dream again try to change it yourself rather than letting it run it's 'normal' script. I'm studying dreams at the minute for my dissertation and have found that so many people try to make something out of their dreams when really they are just 'random' signals firing in the brain. So, dont waste too much time trying to gleen meaning from them. You can get meaning out of anything if you try hard enough and i certainly wouldn't trust anyone who seriously tried to analyse my dreams for supernatural messages or personal/predictory meaning.

Dreams are best enjoyed as more of a private nocturnal theatre. Sweet Dreams!

Answer 3

yes i have dreams of a very good male freind sitting at the edge of my bed and my nephew is laying on one side of me and my daughters are laying on the other side, if it is good news he is smiling, if it is bad news he is rubbing my leg and frowning- but anyways as i was saying the only person in hte room who can hear him is my nephew and when he goes to tell me what was said the girls are whispering the exact same thing in the other ear,and if there is a pregnancy i dream of all of the babies i have ever had a habd in raising, and trust me there are quite a few , they are all in a play pen usually with all these dreams i know exactly who they are about although with the bed dream i can't say what will happen
as for the fiance dream trust your instincts if he ain't cheating he is lying about something go with your instinct squash the situation before it gets out of hand

Answer 4

nicely it truthfully relies upon. How often have you ever had this dream? What have been you thinking approximately earlier you fell asleep? Are you sexually pissed off? answer those questions and you're able to be waiting to come to a decision if that is common. maximum human beings have the main eldritch aims and that is okay, it truthfully relies upon on what you have been thinking/doing. additionally, you're one fortunate guy or woman in case you had that dream.

Answer 5

Be careful not to rely too much on your dreams, they are a sort of phantasy and a lot of them come up when you are awake and while remembering what you have dreamt. So, understand what you want, it is not a real kind of understandig.

Answer 6

I have had similar dreams. I think that you want to be married and have a child, but your afraid of a man to commit to you.

Answer 7

You are worring about these things happening so you dream about them

Answer 8

You won't get much help in this section, I'd recommend re-asking this in "Mythology and Folklore" or "Psychology".

Answer 9

i think you can figure this one yourself

it is an obvious and generic situation of a relationship