I need to talk to someone that will help me understand my dreams..?

Question

I have a lot of reoccuring dreams..I think they mean something. I have looked at dream dictionaries but they dont get in depth enough.
I am not sure who I would speak to about this.
I have a lot of dreams of me having an infant baby (I have no babies of my own) my baby is always smiling and laughing (its always a very happy baby)
Also I have dreams of my fiance holding hands and being in love with someone else..and he tries to tell me its over and wont let him say it,
anyone have dreams like this?

Think what you will it is not crap

My feelings are not crap

Answer 1

Your dreams are a door to your unconscious mind. Your conscious mind does not communicate in the same way your subconscious mind does. The higher thought processes are in your conscious mind, but the more primitive thought exist in the subcouscious mind. I think a good analogy would be an iceburg. What you see on the surface is only a fraction of what is there. In dreams, it is an opportunity for your subconscious mind to communicate with the conscious. The message is usually wants, needs, and fears. You don't have a child, but you want one. You want to give him/her a good home and make it happy. This is something you see in your life. You also want your fiance and have deep feelings for him. As your life joins with his, you realize that you not only want him, but you need him. One of your fears is that he may not feel the same way and call it quits, rejection. Before your fear can fully manifest itself, your conscious mind steps in and refuses to let it happen and changes the outcome of the dream so that he stays, even if it is for a little longer.

I don't know how long you have had a relationship with him. Over time, your relationship has moved forward. If your relationship has stalled, and you have not set a date on marriage, then on some level you may be asking yourself why. This could be the insecurity that is adding fuel to the fire, both on the dream about the relationship ending and the baby that may or may not be a result depending on outcome.

Answer 2

Here are a few general principles for understanding your dreams.
Dreams are often just a way of processing what happened during your day. When you have a recurring one, however, it's probably a question you are working on or something your unconscious wants you to pay attention to.
Other people in your dream, especially those who are unknown, are often representations of parts of yourself. A few times I have dreamed of an infant that I know is mine but I'm not sure how (I'm single and don't have kids) and the baby is in distress -- hungry, freezing, etc. It's been a dramatic signal to me that I'm not taking care of myself and I need to NOW! Maybe the fact that your baby is happy and smiling just suggests it's time for you to have some fun or nurture yourself...or that you are already doing that.
This works better than looking in a dream book: write down your dream, as soon as you can. Write it as if it's actually happening. Then take an image or item in the dream and write down everything it reminds you of or that you associate with it, no matter how silly. Chances are you'll think of an idea that suddenly feels right -- "that's it!" Or write down an imaginary dialogue with the person in the dream and see whether it tells you more.
If nothing resonates with you, come back to the dream description in a couple of days. You'll be surprised how something may suddenly connect.
Also, don't assume your dream means your fiance is cheating on you -- it may be about an insecurity you're feeling, either with him or with something entirely different (work, for example.) Just listen to your feelings about the dream. Don't act on anything until you feel you're peacefully understanding it.

Answer 3

sure I surely have goals of an somewhat stable male freind sitting on the edge of my mattress and my nephew is laying on one facet of me and my daughters are laying on the different facet, whether it is stable information he's smiling, whether it is undesirable information he's rubbing my leg and frowning- yet anyhow as i replaced into saying the only person in hte room who will pay attention him is my nephew and while he is going to tell me what replaced into suggested the ladies folk are whispering the precise same element in the different ear,and if there's a being pregnant i dream of all of the babies I surely have ever had a habd in elevating, and believe me there are extremely some , they're all in a play pen often with those form of goals i be attentive to precisely who they're approximately in spite of the reality that with the mattress dream i won't be able to declare what is going to take place as for the fiance dream believe your instincts if he ain't cheating he's mendacity approximately some thing flow which includes your instinct squash the area till now it gets out of hand

Answer 4

Dreams don't mean anything. It's random conglomerations of the day. Could be hopes or dreams you have or anything. Wanting a baby, fearful of losing a lover due to your low self-esteem...all kinds of crap. Ultimately just that. Total crap.

Answer 5

Unclear on a few things - "he tries to tell me it's over". Does that mean - over between them or over between you two?

And who is it that "won't let him say it"? If it's you, do you not want him to say it because it would be a lie on his part? Or because you do not want to have to face the reality of it?