If the sex starts to drag...she gets Mad and you notice I said SHE, because most of the time the males get tired of the female and her used up body the her previous husband wore out.
2006-11-12 03:16:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe its actually because the guy only knows one position and has no imagination or is just plain boring and the female would rather watch soaps than waste her time.
2006-11-12 03:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No..
Females bodies are pretty resiliant..
They do suffer from wear & tear & gravity & time , as do we all..
She was good enough when you started with her..
So she has not appreciably changed since then..
You are simply growing bored & tired of the same woman
and are not showing her the same sexual attention as before.
She loved the sex and wants it to continue...
What are your options ?
You can make an effort to please her....OR..
You can continue to ignore her and she can either accept it
and live in discontent or she can divorce you...
Try adding some things to spice up our sex routines..
Watch some porn together..
Have you satisfied all your fantasies ?
Have her bring over a g/f for a 3some once a month..
I said have HER bring over a g/f...Never you...
You must NEVER contact the other woman outside the bedroom.
2006-11-12 11:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't quite understand what u are saying.I will say that a marriage takes two and alot of work.Spice or the love life. Like dinner,candles ,play acting,and some even go back to dating.They make plans for a date and start all over.It can be fun and romantic. Romance is what u want to put back into your marriage.Good luck
2006-11-12 11:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The failed marriage is not because of lack of sex here,but its cos of lack of love,proper communication and lack of conveying ur wife that u respect her.Women are ear sensitive.Talk to her in a way she wouldnt be hurt for her past.
2006-11-12 11:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by aquarian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe both of you are too tired of doing the same thing. You should start doing something new. I know it works. For while I thought my relationship was going down because of our intamcy, but we tired all sorts of things and almost every night were getting it on.
2006-11-12 11:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by shy_gal2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be a real drag to let the sex drag! so why did you get married?
2006-11-12 11:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better look at yourself buddy. Then you may see the real cause. Can have a kid and be as good as ever. You haven't used anything up. You just can't turn her on with your boring old ways.
Truth hurts.
2006-11-12 11:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After years of trying, I've never seen one wear out. Youre gonna have to find something else to blame it on.
2006-11-12 11:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So her sex drive is higher than yours,you knew this before you married her and did it anyway.Now it seems as you are now complaining because you can no longer keep up,she's upset with you because you can't or won't.Why don't you join a health club so you can please yourself and your wife.
2006-11-12 11:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like a statement than an answer. I think you already have decided on the answer.
2006-11-12 11:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by tarl_cabot_2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋