We all know men can get painfully aroused and a willing female is the means for a most gratifying relief. This usually or even always leaves the female unsatisfied, with a sleeping partner and a slimy mess to clean up. And do any women really ENJOY giving oral sex. So, what do woman get from sex and why do it?
2006-11-12 02:45:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hey now- 'this usually or even always leaves the female unsatisfied'- where are you getting your facts? Women have sex drives, too, and desires, and get horny and want sex. I know that I have been 'painfully aroused' before. When women have sex, they can orgasm, which is the equivalent of male ejaculation- it feels dang good. Moreover, not all men fall asleep immediately after sex, and there are a lot of women who do just that. A slimy mess for her to clean up? Both partners need to deal with the mess that sex makes, or both ignore it. Make sense?
As for oral sex, it can either please a woman to do it- which is true for some, who get a sexual high from that position of servitude/submission, of being able to tease their men with their mouths, or just the sexy feel of it, or they can do it because they want to please their husbands/boyfriends- and tit for tat, right? Pretty much everybody loves oral sex, men and women both, and if it isn't overwhelmingly pleasurable for the person doing it, you better believe the impetus to go for it is so that places can get switched around and he/she can have it done on them!
Women get a lot out of sex, just like men, and that's why we keep doing it! Now, that ain't to say that there aren't women (and men) who have sex for different reasons, but primarily, we have sex because it feels wonderful.
2006-11-12 11:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are wanting sex only then sleep with like minded individuals when you like as often as you like and enjoy! However, if you are wanting to develop into a mature adult and become a man then you may consider at some point embarking on a wonderful journey and begin connecting with others in a much more deeply satisfying personal way. A 'real' loving relationship is very much more than the sexual act. It involves connecting emotionally, intellectually and spiritually. But it also involves something else that cannot be put into words and something so difficult to understand. It defies logic and explanation. It is powerful and is somehow, someway, sometimes .......if your very, very lucky........created! I'm getting carried away now lol. I imagine there are lots of enduring relationships where couples do not have sex for one reason or another .......disability, old age, mental health problems, physical problems, don't like it etc.
2016-05-22 07:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you aware you posted this in the GLBT forum? Most men on here if painfully aroused, aren't going to get gratifying relief from a willing female(bi's and trannies are of course the exception).
From a woman's point of view, this kind of behavior as you describe is self serving and immature. I can't imagine any woman getting anything out of being with someone like you are describing. Not to mention the demeaning of the self, and who needs that.
Yes, most heterosexual and bisexual women actually enjoy giving oral sex with a partner they are very turned on by. My guess is the same woman you are describing in the first part of your question, isn't going to get anything out of the selfishness of the person she's dealing with.
What I personally get out of sex is a physical, spiritual, psychological and emotional expression of the merging of two selves into one. But then my g/f doesn't treat me like a piece of Kleenex to simply foul.
2006-11-12 02:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is worded rather distastefully, but just in case you're serious, I'll try to answer.
As I understand it, during good sex, women have orgasms, which is why they like it. (If they don't with you, then you're obviously doing it wrong and should get some advice, or just stay celibate and let them find someone more considerate!)
Giving oral sex is immensely pleasurable because of the effect it has on the person you're doing it with. It's a huge turn-on for me, and I would assume women enjoy it for the same reasons.
The thing I've always wondered about is why some women enjoy anal sex - I mean, for us men it's obvious, but with no prostate, can it really be that good? I'm just curious, and I hope that question doesn't offend anyone.
2006-11-12 03:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by JBoy Wonder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that is really your experiance with women then i'd say you are failing miserably at you job. and in that case then i'd also say i could see no reason why any woman would enjoy giving you a job either. so no, im sure they get no pleasure from giving you oral sex. theres some nice dolls on the market now,, they could probably give you the same response your "dates" would.
2006-11-12 04:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I am a guy. I love to dress like women sometimes, but that still does not allow me to know what they really feel.
2006-11-12 02:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm pleasure comes to mind... why does anybody have sex...
2006-11-12 05:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same as males! God bless
2006-11-12 02:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's mostly to please men, or for power, one or the other. Sex before marriage shouldn't be engaged in, and oral sex is especially sick.
2006-11-12 02:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋