For years I had that belief, that sex was "yucky," I think my ideas stemmed from childhood. My mother basically made sex sound like a dirty thing. I had a very difficult time, and my poor husband was a angel despite my backwards ideas. However, over time I began to see that it was definitely emotional, for both of us. When we have sex more, we don't fight, we sleep better, we don't get as grumpy with each other or the kids, we are just more rounded people. I still don't like the mess to clean up afterwards, but it doesn't really take away from the experience anymore. Oral sex, well, that's a mood thing. I just have to be in the mood, I can't explain it. As far as my husband leaving me unsatisfied, well, that just depends on how often we have sex. If we don't have sex for a week, well, then it's our own fault. He gets so aroused, he can't help but go early. If we have sex on a regular basis though, he can always hold out and give me the experience I need.
2006-11-12 02:55:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Women enjoy sex for the same reasons as men..
The event as described in your question is simply a result
of poor / lazy / self centered love making on the part of the male.
I have NEVER left a woman unhappy or unsatisfied...
I don't quit until she cries "uncle" and begs for mercy...
2006-11-12 04:24:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Do yourself, and the "willing females" in your life, a favor and pick up "The Joy of Sex."
Women get the same thing men do out of sex: pleasure. That is, if the woman's lover knows what he or she is doing. As for the oral sex question, that's a tit-for-tat thing, now isn't it?
2006-11-12 04:56:39
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answered by sparky52881 5
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what do men get out of sex and why do they keep having it???
women can get painfully aroused and a willing male is the means for a most gratifying relief!
Im not sure you are really in the right perspective to ask this question. Unless you know how women feel during sex! yes, it's true that it's harder for women to get an orgasm but it's still definitly enjoyable, even faking an orgasm is exciting!
So what do men get from sex? and why do it?
2006-11-12 02:49:07
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answered by just_a_metaphor 2
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You need to speak with an enlightened female who can explain the physical satisfaction they derive from orgasm and givinmg oral sex, it varies from person to person.
2006-11-12 02:47:11
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answered by DEADGONE 4
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I get made love too, so yes I enjoy sex...and everything about it....of course time is hard to make for it...as I have a busy family but somehow we still find "our" time.
2006-11-13 03:07:31
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answered by baseballmommy 4
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apparently you aint doin it right, and they do oral cuz they enjoy pleasin their partners the same reason men do oral
2006-11-12 02:46:41
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answered by Anonymous
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of course women enjoy sex, girls love getting *** in their mouth! they get pleasure out of it and why NOT do it
2006-11-12 02:47:57
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answered by Andrea B 1
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They get pleasure.
2006-11-12 02:57:45
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answered by youthebest 2
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