I feel so down, but it's like I can't even pick up the phone and call anyone cause I feel like I pushed everyone away, and I feel like my brother who used to be one of my best friends even thinks I'm a loser and makes fun of me. I just broke up with my fiance, but he was my best friend, but now when ever we talk we just fight. I don't know what to do. I am thinking about diving into my artwork and just forgetting everything. What do you do if you ever feel like this?
2006-11-12 02:21:30 · 6 answers · asked by free:eli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm a cancer..i go back into my shell and peek out every now and then.
2006-11-12 02:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost the last thing you said dive into your artwork is exactly what you need to do. I'm a singer when I got frustrated and a bit depressed because I thought I was the cause of gaining and losing friends all the time. I soon realized after looking at everyone else faults which come out so easily once your down, I'm a good person. I have a good personality and I'm talented, and I dove into my singing. While at work I write songs down in my journal now and read. Not being in the lime light with friends who don't really care for me has made me dig deeper into my soul. You should try that too. As for your brother family is family and they always come around sooner or laughter maybe more tough than easy. I had a cousin our situation was similar, and for about 6 1/2 years we didn't speak and all of a sudden this year she called me and we finally cleared the air. Be strong OK!
2006-11-12 10:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by Saude! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, to be frank.....I feel the same way only exept that I am just a school student.
Yes You must indulge into an activity completely and remain a recluse for a long time,say 6 months, once you complete your works like paintings or Novel or Songs etc....Get a makeover job for physical appearance.....THEN FROM SOLITUDE COME OUT INTO THE LIGHT and show the NEW YOU and what you've been upto all these time......If you've got everything right you'll be noticed and respected....FOREVER....But you need to patient...
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2006-11-12 10:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by hari k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Art or writing are great ways to express yourself when you are feeling down. Some people produce their best work when they are moved by emotions. It may actually help you get the emotions out of your system.
My man writes poetry. He has been going through a terrible writer's block since he and I have gotten together. He is now happy and just can't get the same emotional involvement with his poetry when he is happy.
2006-11-12 10:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know you did something to push them away, then do something to get them all to talk to you again! Apologize for anything you can recognize you did wrong. Also tell them how you feel. Your brother should understand and support because you are family!!
2006-11-12 10:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by REGINA A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get help. couselling. there was obviously some reason you got into this funk, so get help and find out why...then you can fix it.
2006-11-12 10:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋