omg my mom is anyoing me i mean like i love her and all and she trustes me with alot of things but the thing is she wont truset me alone w/ my b.f he invited me to go to a resort with him and i really wanna go i mean his mom and dad and sister are gonna be there so its like were not gonna be alone but she doesnt trust me she thinks im gonna do somthing and i am not i already told her but she still doesnt and its makeing me mad i want her to truset me with my own b.f i need help on ways that i can show her that i can go places with my b.f with out things happeing the only thing we would do is hug hold hands and cuddle thats all i even told her that and mabye kiss a lil its not the big of a deal but to her it is and its driveing me nuts help anyone
2006-11-12 00:36:09 · 7 answers · asked by becca p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
all it is. is that your mums over protective its a good thing but maybe you should have a talk with her agen explain this to her.
good luck
pnky
2006-11-12 00:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by danni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, you can say you won't do anything all you want, but she knows how she was and how much a guy can push you to do something. It becomes irresistable when there is no one around except you and him and the setting is just right. Not too many people...teen or adult alike, can control their hormones in that situation. Your hormones, I'm assuming your a teen, are just starting to kick in, and they will make you do crazy things...and your mom knows this. It doesn't have to do with trust, it has to do with protection. It's not that she doesn't trust you, it's that she knows that it's virtually impossible not to give in to hormones at your age, so she's just protecting you. Be patient, you'll get your time together. I wouldn't let my daughters go either..and I trust mine with just about everything already. But they aren't the only factor in that equasion, so i'm going to protect them from that factor.
2006-11-12 00:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok yah she shuldn't elt you go look how babyish your acting like get over it you think your mom should let you go to a resort with you boy frined do u know how iresponcable that is it doesn't mean she doesn't trust you it means she don't want yyou put you ina a situation you won't be able to get ut of or you will regret maybe it's the boy she doesn't trust!!
2006-11-12 00:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't tell us how old you are but if you are under 21 your mother is right not to trust you! She knows that when you get pregnant she will be stuck raising and paying for your kid! All I can say is KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK MOM!!!!!
2006-11-12 00:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by Lots of money but no sense 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't come down to trusting you,it's keeping you from being in a situation where something COULD happen.You,alone with your bf at a resort,yes it could happen!!
2006-11-12 00:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel and what you think you want and see if she will compromise with you that is the best thing that you could try and do.
And also get you BF parents to talk to your mum and then maybe she will feel a bit more comfortable knowing them and that they will be there
2006-11-12 01:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by i_love_john_cena_009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up, there are reasons why she doesnt trust you, and it isnt all about sex.......so how about you stop griping and go and talk to her.....
2006-11-12 00:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋