im 15 years old alot of people count on me my 26 year old sister come to me for advice about her 3 year old son and her ex and guys she dates. my friends also come to me for various things i have alot of problems of my own i cant take it at home anymore ive thought about suicide but i have to many people here to leave ive thought of running away but i dont have aywhere to go what should i do? ive tried talking to someone including my counselor at school but she says i need to go to a regulsr counselor and she even called my parents and told them but they didnt do anything. my step mom forbided me to talk to my boyfriend but i still do i love him too much to let her come between us. hes 17 and she forbided me because he cuses but i do too and not bc of him ive cussed since b4 i met him and i wounder if they knew i cuse if they would hate me as much as they hate him. i often find my stepmom listening to mine and my 26 year old sisters phone calls but anyway what should i do about him
2006-11-12 00:35:10 · 8 answers · asked by eaw_mkj 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
sometimes i wish i could just make everything go away but i dont know how.sometime i used to think 3 more years and then i can leave but everyday gets harder
2006-11-14 07:54:58 · update #1
i think that you should look at it like as if you were with out things, and count your blessings, and be PROUD that your older sister respects your opinion.
2006-11-12 00:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your step mom seems like a real B*tch! Everyone cuses at some point in their life, but it'l pass. About your bf, that's really though bc if you go behind her back, she'll be more of a b*tch, and you can't just give up. School events and after school programs are a good way to "not" see him but you know... Umm, about the whole depression thing, when you do find time to spend with your bf, don't talk about your stress, that will in turn hurt your relationship. Also, try telling your sister and friends that you need a break every once in a while.
p.s. GOOD LUCK, I mean it too.
2006-11-12 08:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents love you. give them some slack. as a parent it is scary to watch your children grow up and begin to think for themselves. we are so used to thinking for you and doing everything for you. if your stepmom doesn't want you to see your boyfriend she might be seeing something in him that only an adult would see and not a fifteen year old. most of us parents know a thing or two about the human race by the time we have raised our own children maybeshe is jsut trying to protect you and i dont think you should fault her for that because it could be the other way around and she let u do everything you want ... wouldn't that be fun!!! that's when parents don't love you enough. I know it is hard being a teenager but try to step back from your emotions and see that your parents just want to keep you safe. being a parent is the scariest thing you will ever do in your life. so instead of being angry with them for forbidding you to see your boyfriend maybe you should sit down and talk calmly with them about the situation you would be surprised what reasonable parents are willling to do for their children. good luck honey, I hope all goes well.
2006-11-12 08:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by sweet lily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy life dude.
You seem like a smart kid, with a good head on your shoulders.
The world is an amazing place to be in (despite all the stuff going on in the east).
Do me a favor [ read, test ] Come back and post another question on these forums this day next year, asking why you ever posted this one! I bet in a years time you will sit back and think why you ever thought what what you have.
LIFE IS AMAZING, ENJOY WHILE ITS HERE.
Keep your chin up mate.
2006-11-12 08:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not appropriate for a 15 year old to have a boyfriend. but since you have gotten into this mess you should break up with him. your parents told you no. so your options are:
1) break up w/ someone you won't marry, have a good life
2) run away and have a very poverty-stricken unhappy life
your choice.
~Dr. Elizabeth Bennett
2006-11-12 11:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by ihaveaquestion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiddo, I was taught by a person who was going through a divorce. Your sister need someone to talk with, and it is you! In the years to come, this is a closeness that can not be replaced, she is your blood!
2006-11-12 08:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is it possible that you talk to your sister and ask her to stay there for awhile till you get sorted, are you able to stay at ur boyfriends parents place?
2006-11-12 08:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by criddlekellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him on the internet.
2006-11-12 08:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋