Me and my wife are going through a divorce.She left me in Oct.06
She live with her parents.We have two kids together.My wife pays me child support next month.Their no court order on who has custody right now.She has 2 jobs.she takes them to school and picks them up.The kids stay the night with me.How would the court make a decision.
My wife has a history of leave me or not paying her share of the house bills at times . Her parents gives her keys to their house. Tell her she welcome back any time.I talk to the parents saying by giving her the keys and telling her she welcome back. Me and her are going to have problems.They said we should both talk i say she won't listen. I live in the house we brought.Thier no police record of volience on me or her.She easily influneces by other.The last 6 month we both committ adultery.We both told each other the reason why we did it.I told her i don't see the lady any more.She tells me she in love with the guy and bring the kid around him.
2006-11-12 00:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I must say, you too are honest. Both are adults and are being responsible for the children. The court really isn't the, (the judge)
doesn't really make that decision. There is a court appoint mediator for listens to both side if there is a huge issue, then they make the recommend and the judge decides. But if you too, already have it together and it works in favorite of the children, like not having to move out of their home. Then i don't think that would something I would worry about. For support, its how much time the children are in their care, then they look at the numbers, then its done.
2006-11-12 00:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also don't understand her paying you. I have shared custody in which the judge accepted. Put your children first. Take them as often as you can. In the eyes of the court, you need to prove you are caring, nurturing, willing and able to care for those children. Document every time you are with them, what you did with them, why you have them. ie: she wants to go to the bar, she needs time alone, you want to see them, etc. I strongly feel documentation will help regardless of the outcome.
2006-11-12 09:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by squirelnut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run run run to a lawyer. Get a temporary custody order. Then during your actual divorce the Judge will tend to lean the way of the person who already has custody. Get r done.
2006-11-12 08:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by bill a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, do you work? Why is she paying ou child support and working two jobs?...
No judge, trust me on this one, is going to not allow you to see your kids if you are not abusive or dangerous, so don't worry. It is admirable that you care so much.
Please don't think I am insulting you, I am not, but maybe you need to make YOU better and she may come back around....back to school or something...JMO good luck.
2006-11-12 08:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,the kids live with you already.i dont see why you would lose them.i mean,did she leave them behind to go live with her parents?and also she is living with her parents,she needs a place of her own to have the kids.
2006-11-12 11:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by super girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE BEST WAY IS TO FILE A CASE AGAINST HER
2006-11-12 08:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by riya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋