2006-11-12 00:12:48 · 12 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hard to say. You need to find out more about this person. Faulting someone for being ill is a bit on the cold side, but hear him out and then decide for yourself. If he did it to someone once, what might happen if lets say, you become ill?
2006-11-12 00:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by TL 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!!! I have been married to a man with bipolar for 15 yrs. And I could not or would not have respect for someone that done their spouse that way. Just think if he will leave for those reasons he is a wimp! And just can not handle everyday stress .
2006-11-12 08:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by carol w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah, his ex-girl friend isn't him. He probably really loved her and tried to make it work but her depression became too much for him to handle. He probably couldn't bare to see her like that and didn't like the effect it was having on him. Go for it!
2006-11-12 08:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't rule him out. BUT... what I would need is corroborating witnesses to their relationship, to make sure there were more problems that just that. If it was that and only that -- he didn't like her being depressed and taking medication for it -- it would be enough to scare me away, then, yes. Talk to male and female friends who had a ringside seat to what their dynamic was like when they were together.
2006-11-12 08:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by martino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he left her because he couldn't cope, I wonder how strong a man he is??? If he left her because of a mutual decison. then yes. If he has children and he is not there to protect them, no I wouldn't ....
2006-11-12 08:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he leave his ex-to help her qualify for government benefits, or did he leave his ex because he couldn't "deal" with her?
Did he leave his ex because he loved her very much, or because
he stopped loving her?
2006-11-12 08:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by Ultra Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on his feelings about her, was it her that drove them apart or her depression. maybe some part of him contributed to her depression, huh?
2006-11-12 08:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by blueJean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might happen to you!
2006-11-12 08:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by Billy Butthead 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand, if it was her issue and not his, why are you concerned?
2006-11-12 08:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by mreheather6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only no but HELL NO!
2006-11-12 08:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by hoop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋