our friendship is suffereing and she is a worse house keeper than I am. There was no written contract and she isn't keeping up with her end of the verbal agreement. I don't want a huge fight, but can't stand it anymore.
2006-11-11 23:03:39 · 12 answers · asked by nut4jc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her it is time for her to go. You are not going to have her stay anymore. You do not have to go into detail and I wouldn't. Give her a date and time to be out and ask for the rent money she owes you....
When friends take advantage of you, they cross the line, thus you have no explaining to do. she has made the big mistake in taking you for granted,. One sided friendships don't work. Give her the info written on a piece of paper, so she can't confuse the date.
If she will not go.Gather up her stuff in her suitcases, boxes, whatever and put them outside, get your key back from her and tell her , this is it.
I don't think you have to worry about a big fight...tell her what is going to happen, it is your place and that is it... If you need back-up have one of your family memebers theres.
Offer her a ride to a shelter if she has no money... just tell her she is done.....be honest don't fluff it up. do not make excuses....or give reasons...If you have to hand her $100.00, well spent in my eyes......
2006-11-11 23:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have a written contract and she has not kept up her end of your verbal agreement, you have the right to ask her to leave. If this is a long-time friendship you would like to save, try talking to her and explaining your position. There may be some misunderstanding on both ends (doesn't sound like it, though). Give her a chance to make her point. If you still aren't satisfied that she will change, ask her to go.
2006-11-12 00:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by mreheather6 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her to move? This is your home and you're within your rights to decide who lives there!
Out of friendship (I'm unsure of the legalities in your situation) and decency you could give her time to find a new place and even offer to help her move her belongings.
Tell her you've just decided you need your own space.
For the exact legal steps you take your local consumer departments can supply those details. I don't think a verbal agreement holds as much weight as a written one, but that may not be true!
2006-11-11 23:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Yellowstonedogs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your house with your name on the lease, if you've invited her to stay, in this time of year (winter) good luck.
Otherwise you can try and get a court order, through your attorney, than have her served and a constable can then evict her. Usually when they don't have a place to go and there's a child present, they'll give them a ride or take them to a half way house or shelter.
You may think about getting a restraining order at the same time so she doesn't think she can come back, for her clothes, something she forgot, etc.
2006-11-11 23:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
except your mothers and fathers are prepared which you would be emancipated, then they're in charge for you until you're 18. CPS will step in if that is not achieved, and you'd be placed interior the device until 18, or to the factor which you will instruct to the courtroom which you have potential to look after your self (nutrition, defend, outfits, scientific care, etc.) the respond on your question is not any - and you'd be prosecuted as a antisocial toddler or status criminal staring on the way the prosecution prefer to circulate.
2016-11-23 16:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by ashmore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that your friendship has already suffered so much that you could't bare it if got any worse, so you think it would be a good idea if she could please find somewhere else to live. Tell her that you can give her a really good reference if she needs one, and that you wish things had have worked out better for the both of you but at least now you know that you can't live together happily.So its best for everybody.
2006-11-11 23:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by rubyflats 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to your ombdsmen or landlord and tenant agency. Ask what the legal amount of written notice is in your state or town. (It varies) and then serve proper written notice to her. If its 30 or 60 days, put up with her quietly till then, document everything, and she's gone.
2006-11-11 23:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by messier 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Since it is your place of residence, let her know in writing that she needs to move out by a month. Is she paying you any rent? If she isn't then techically you aren't the landlord and you'll be able to call the cops on her on the same day.
2006-11-11 23:06:19 · answer #8 · answered by Craiova 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to serve her a notice of at least 30 days. If you signed no lease, it's a month to month tenancy (most states). However, getting an eviction/written notice of at least 30 days will suffice.
2006-11-11 23:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and ask her to move out and if this doesnt work then write her a letter telling her how many days she has left untill she must move out and you also must talk to her about her half of the agreement because maybey she doesnt realise that she is doing it!!! if she starts to get nasty about any of it call the polive and get it sorted out that way!!!
Good luck
2006-11-12 01:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by i_love_john_cena_009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋