my friend, who ive known for 6 years now and always had a crush on, she split up with her man in febuary this year and since then ive been helping out her an her two children, ive been gettng very close to her. i have strong felings but she has said before she just doesnt feel that way about me. now she has been seeing a man she met on a dating site, i havent met him yet but she tells me all about what he and her have done, now shes talking about going on the pill to take the relationship further and i feel so lonely and hurt inside because i love her and i wish i could be with her. she said before that the only thing that could stop us being freinds was if i was jealous, and im incredidbly jealoues and sad that this is happening. should i tell her how i feel even though it mite mean the end of freindship, or should i pretend to be ok with it which isnt easy.im so uncomfortable that some man is doing things with her and we can never b as close again as we have been while she was single
2006-11-11 22:36:57 · 5 answers · asked by clinton_b1980 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what you need to do is get over your self and face reality.be very glad she hasn't lied to you or used you ,nor has she lead you on.either be her friend and do the things you do for her out of true friendship or ship out.
2006-11-12 01:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl probably knows that you have special feelings for her. Jealousy is a horrible feeling, too. You need to remove yourself from this situation ASAP. Get busy with someone of your own. I can almost promise you this young lady will NOT forget you. Things will probably get slippery between her and the "online" guy, at which point, you'll be geting a call or two. Don't let yourself be used!! The only way to get out from under your predicament is to get away from the situation. You're being a doormat. There are lots of women out there...
2006-11-11 22:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, you are having a miscarriage today? I would hope that he is with you. This is how you know he cares. There are a million reasons you fell like this - they are all related to the pregnancy and they will all subside in time. If you are still having these issues in a few months, go talk to your OB/GYN or a counselor.
2016-05-22 06:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a real friend she will listen and understand your feelings.I
have a girl friend that once told me she loved me,I was very surprised,but still I listen to her and we still friends till today.so...
why you don't give a try and open your heart.And regarding to the jealouse it is hard but don't you want her to be happy?If doesn't work with her,you will find somebody that love you too.May be you are so into her that you don't give other people a chance to aprouch you.
2006-11-11 23:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by realistic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop helping her out and concentrate on moving on with your own life. There is no future there for you, so,stop putting yourself up for another fall. Concentrate on you.
2006-11-12 00:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋