I'm a 13 year old male and an only child, all of my friends know and they don't care.
2006-11-11 21:54:09 · 13 answers · asked by Scorpio 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well i guess you are a little young to be sure about your sexual preferences but whenever the time comes, tell your dad that you like girls alot, and wanna have wife and kids but at the same time you like guys too and that you are realy confused what to do and whats wrong with you etc etc..... and that you will have to make a choice forever wther to be gay or not....
once her hears this, he is gonna say 'you dont have to make a choice, there are people who like both' etc etc... coz he will be fearing you choosing to be gay..
worth a shot...
2006-11-11 22:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by Lestat R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless you have a bf that you are going to have to introduce to your dad, I dont see a hurry to tell him about it yet. I'm not saying hiding it is the way to go; but until you're closer to 18 and won't have to live with him anymore, he has a lot of power over your life... think about what he might do, and if you think he'd make your life miserable, you might not want to say anything. Parents have a lot of influence over a 13 year old.
2006-11-11 22:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by cartmansmom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your old enough because you've known your whole life because people are born gay and if people say your to young to know any better I say this. straight kids know by the time they are 13 wether or not they are straight so why not a bi kid
2014-12-15 14:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by millie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 he would probably think you're just confused better to wait.
2006-11-11 22:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell him if he really hates or fears the 'queer' factor. If your friends do not care, well that is great, it means you have good friends. Any parent who would hate their own child is stupid. What about other family members?
2006-11-11 21:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by sangheilizim 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what a while longer buddy at least till you are able to support yourself if anything goes wrong.
If he gets nasty you need to have some sort of support around you, he could kick you out or anything.
I say wait until you are 16
good luck
x
2006-11-11 21:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everbody still loves Chris...wait for a while longer...
2006-11-11 21:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sixteen years old and still haven't, so I'll tell you when I figure it out myself.
2006-11-12 08:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't tell him. You know he won't understand and that telling him would damage your relationship with him. I think you should keep it to yourself. There is no compelling reason that he should know this.
2006-11-11 23:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is a new realization for you, I would just wait.
2006-11-12 02:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by cammie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋