Myself and my boyfriend love each other a lot and we are planning to get married soon.of late I am having this desire to see him with a clean shaven head.Since we have known each other he has never cut his hair short.I dont know what he will think of me if I tell him about my desire.What shall I do?Should I keep quite or disclose it to him.
2006-11-11 21:24:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Myself and my boyfriend love each other a lot and we are planning to get married soon.of late I am having this desire to see him with a clean shaven head.Since we have known each other he has never cut his hair short.I dont know what he will think of me if I tell him about my desire.What shall I do?Should I keep quite or disclose it to him.
Also is it abnormal to have such a desire?
2006-11-11 21:48:03 · update #1
It is really abnormal to have such desire, within the purview of the situation what you narrated.
2006-11-12 15:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sunitha,
I must tell u dat u hv a real wierd thought 2 worry. hv u ever tried 2 find out reason behind his hairstyle. If it is 4 sum spiritual or sumthng imp then he might refuse wchwl hurt u . But, if it just 4 style then he wud nt mind shaving them once coz they can always grow again.
U love him very much & plan 2 marry him but if u hesitate 2 disclose ur likes & dislikes 2 him u wl never keep going well. Try 2 b as much open & clear 2 him 2 hv a good relation.
1st try 2 find out d cause of his keeping long hair..& then tell him of ur wish. IF HE LOVES U, he wl definitely respect ur feelings & do as u desire.
HAVE A HAPPY WEDDED LIFE. GOOD LUCK ALWAYS.
2006-11-18 05:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by Kashish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a crazy desire and there is no harm in telling him straight!! Otherwise marry him and give him enough troubles( I know you should be really good at it with desires like these!!) so that all his hair will fall off and he will become totally bald!!!! Then he can save the money for the close shave also!!! Ha! Ha!
2006-11-11 23:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luk frnd u say u and ur guy love eachother a lot, when u love him knwing that h hav long hairs and wht not, then whats the trouble if he have the long hairs.ya i knw u wish so, if u wish so just say it to him, when u both understand eachother i am sure there will b no chance of misunderstanding, u better tell ur desires before ur wedding, becoz after wedding u wil b husband and wife not beloved's like now.hope u understud wht i mean to say.
2006-11-11 21:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by sweetu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way...you know seriously it called the Love Syndrome wherein you want to see him in different views....cause you are planning to marry him right...so its good that you do a reality check on him....you wanna shave his head cause you want to know how he is going to be when he is going to be old....now buy him some really retro getho like some bell bottom trousers.... not just shave his head shave his other head also...a neat and clean boy is the neat time to have....mmmmm
2006-11-13 16:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by Myles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to examine yourself first. why do you want your boyfriend to have a clean shaven hair? Does it reminds you of somebody? or someone? or an event in your life? THen i suggest after examining it you have to consult your boyfriend about this desire..... the keyword is "open communication" so good luck!!!
2006-11-11 21:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by bugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good eveninggggggggggg Indiaaaaaaaaaa... as per u, both r planning to get marry soon plse do it . because in Hindu religion this type of situation come in a once as u desired
2006-11-12 23:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by aadrish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can say your desire to your boyfriend as you both are about to marry soon and in this case he will not discourage you
2006-11-11 21:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Monu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plan well. and tell him that i want to get marry u in presence of lord venkateshwara . tirupathi . naturally people who go there they will get clean shavenfrom top to bottom. u can darshan of both .dont laugh.then u can enjoy by seeing his head. best of luck.
2006-11-14 01:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by kalasarpa009 k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait till after wedding first of all. maybe he wants to look nice for wedding and wont think he will if he shaves his head. then after married i would ask him if he would do it for you and then if he doesn't like it he can grow it back. but make sure you don't want him to do it because maybe an ex boyfriend was like that. make sure its what you want and not what it would remind you of someone else. but i would definitely wait till after married. you can also tell him its one of your fantasies.but only after married.
2006-11-14 15:11:30 · answer #10 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋