My husband has lost passion in me, how can I find our passion again ? Do you think he has lost his love ? Can you help me to figure this thing out, i would like to stay with for love and friendship not for the reason that im a wife; if that is the case i would like to leave and find my self again
2006-11-11 21:02:05 · 8 answers · asked by carol r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is what a very well known advice columnist stated in the local newspaper, she's now gone.
Her and her husband set Saturday away for themselves, They turned the clock off, they unhooked the phone and told everyone they knew they were not to be bothered on Saturdays.
They rented a porno movie to their liking and then slept late, had nice breakfast then.....it started with a shower and bath...together? it went from there. She stated this is what kept her marriage alive and well for over forty years. I know it works.
By the way, you'll find more married getting movies in the X-Rated section then men. The girl in our town told me half the married women in town rent from there.
2006-11-11 22:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to give him what he wants; be his fantasy and his reality. Dress up (get different outfits, wigs, makeup), Role play. Around the house wear little skimpy things. Arrange a getaway weekend. Go get a different hair cut, color, go get a makeover, do a scavenger hunt around the house or start it at his job ( leave a note in his brief case or message on his phone,car etc. Meet him @ a restaurant, club in something he wouldn't recognize you in and hit on him. Go out on your street corner and have him come pick you up or pick you up from a club or public place. Get a trench coat and put nothing under it or put undergarments and meet him somewhere or in the house w/ it on. It is not about you but bth of you; somehting bth of you have lost in eachother and it is going to take the bth of u to get it back. Explore an adult store together or order some things offline if you do not feel comfortable going into one. Leave him a note on the bathroom mirror in lipstick letting him know how much you love him and desire him and how you can't wait for him to get between your legs. You can set a weekend up at home where you decorate the house in exotic items and have a picnic or a retreat at home, turn off the phones, no computer, no tv. Talk to him in a different dialect ( french accent, jamaican, australian, etc,. Invite him to a romantic dinner for two @ home. Have a full course dinner and let him be the dessert or you could be by throwing your leg up on the table w/ no underwear. Try body paints or candy underwear. Give him a bath when he comes home from a long day. When he gets out the shower be there holding a towel and dry him off or lotion him down. Make him a cd of your favorite songs and tell him that you have to make love for at least half the cd or give him love coupons for free massage, free car wash, free cleaning, a gift form the heart, free "favor" etc. Also get a hold of this book 1001 ways to be romantic. You can also try counseling. Hope I was some help. Let me know how it goes...
2006-11-12 05:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by lovelife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know ive been married 22 years and we still do it two to three times a week good luck
2006-11-12 05:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depend on each other feelings.you can start to flirt with somebody by chatting and if you get that after you found your answer.i don't tell you to leave him that is a bad thing in marriage
2006-11-12 05:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by adela_hantaru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could :
-upgrade youre sexlife
-get out more with her
-offer her alot more surprises than now (flowers...)
-play sexgames
-more prelude
-be more calm and funny home
2006-11-12 05:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Do we think he has lost his love"...only you can know that. I say spice it up in the bedroom.
Good luck.
2006-11-12 05:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good blow and swallow! Men loves that! You might get a blow as well!
2006-11-12 06:27:41 · answer #7 · answered by Goombul! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perform lots and lots of oral sex...really....it works!
2006-11-12 05:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋